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Atolankhani apeza The Reward Foundation ndipo akufalitsa uthenga wonena za ntchito yathu kuphatikizapo: maphunziro athu onena za zoopsa zomwe zingachitike chifukwa chodya kwambiri nthawi yayitali; kuyitanitsa maphunziro ogwira mtima, okhudzana ndi kugonana m'masukulu onse; Kufunika kophunzitsira omwe amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala ku NHS pankhani zolaula komanso zomwe timapereka ku kafukufuku pa zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu azichita zachiwerewere komanso zovuta zakugonana. Tsambali limalemba momwe timaonekera m'manyuzipepala komanso pa intaneti. Tikuyembekeza kutumiza nkhani zambiri pamene 2019 ikupita.

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Life and Culture Feature, wolemba Roisin Agnew. Wolemba pa intaneti 9 Disembala 2019

Kukwera koopsa kwa 'kugonana kwamwano' komanso zomwe amatanthauza kwa akazi

Grace Millane, India Chipchase, Natalie Connolly: Nkhani zachinsinsi za akazi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito motsutsana nawo, ngakhale muimfa

Chiwawa chogonana kwa akazi chikuwonjezeka ku UK m'njira zowopsa komanso zosamveka bwino. Amachokera pa kugwiritsa ntchito mbiri yakale ya azimayi pa nthawi yomwe amayesedwa kupha mpaka kutchuka ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika kwa machitidwe a BDSM, omwe nthawi zambiri amadzudzula chifukwa chazinthu zolaula. Zomwe sizikudziwika bwino ndizomwe zimayambitsa chiwonetsero chatsopanochi, komanso momwe azimayi omwe amagwirizana komanso kukulira njira zamtundu wakugonana amalankhula ndi vuto lalikulu masiku ano.

The kupha munthu wina wazaka 21 wa kumbuyo ku Britain, dzina lake Grace Millane ndipo mayeso omwe adatsatidwa pambuyo pake adadzetsa nkhawa yayikulu, ndikuwunikira njira zomwe zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito mwa njira zogonana ngati gawo la chitetezo chamwano.

Madzulo ake tsiku lokumbukira kubadwa kwake kwa 22, Millane - yemwe anali wolongedza katundu ku New Zealand - adachita chibwenzi ndi bambo yemwe adakumana naye ku Tinder. Atakhala usiku kunja, awiriwo adabwerera kunyumba kwake komwe adakamukwapula mpaka kufa. Ngakhale oweruzawo adapereka chigamulo cholakwika mwezi watha, mlanduwo udakweza mkwiyo wa momwe kugonana kwa Grace kudawonetsera ngati umboni wotsutsana naye. Kugawana kwake koyambirira kwa BDSM komanso kugwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu yaubwana ngati Whiplr idagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati umboni kuti amasangalala ndi zochitika zina, kutanthauza kuti iyi inali nkhani ya 'masewera achiwerewere olakwika'. Yemwe anali chibwenzi chake chakale adayitanidwanso pachiwonetsero chomenyera nkhondo kuti atsimikizire kuti Grace adayamba kuthamangitsa chiwerewere.

Kudutsa ku UK mzaka khumi zapitazi, pakhala pali 90 peresenti ikuwonjezeka pakudzitchinjiriza kwa 'chiwerewere', ndipo pazaka zisanu zapitazi zakhala zikuyenda bwino pafupifupi theka la milandu. Atakwiya ndi izi, abambo okhazikika a Fiona McKenzie akhazikitsa Sitingavomereze Izi, gulu lomwe likuyesetsa kukhala ndi 'zolaula' - kapena otchedwa 'Mithunzi ya 50'- chitetezo kutulutsidwa kunja kwa makhothi aku Britain. Pamodzi ndi MP MP wa Harriet Harman, gululi likufuna kuwonjezera clause pa Bill Ozunza Nyumba Izi zitha kukhala zosavomerezeka kwa munthu yemwe wapha mzimayi kuti amunene kuti wavomera zachiwawa zomwe zidamupha. Opitirawo ati kuvomera kuti masewera ena azakugonana sikofanana ndi kuvomereza kuti aphedwe, monga momwe a Millane adawonetsera. Chitetezo cha 'chiwerewere' chimathandizanso kukhumudwitsa omwe akuzunzidwa kuti abwere kutsogolo, poopa kuti moyo wawo wogonana udzachititsidwa manyazi kapena kuwadzudzula - chinthu chomwe chiri chofala kwambiri m'khothi.

"Nthawi zambiri, simupeza chilichonse chokhudza munthu yemwe wamwalira kupatula dzina lawo komanso zonamizira izi" - a Fiona McKenzie, Sitingavomereze izi

"Izi zikuwoneka kuti ndi nkhaza zachikhalidwe kwa azimayi zomwe zimawoneka kuti zikugwirizana kwambiri ndi nkhanza kwa amayi," atero a McKenzie. "Koma pazifukwa zina pamachitidwe azamakhalidwe olakwira, komanso makamaka pazankhani komanso atawaulutsa, akukhulupirira kuti azimayi anena kuti, inde, ndikufuna kuvulazidwa koopsa. Ndikufuna kugonekedwa m'chipatala chifukwa cha zogonana zanga. "

"Nthawi zambiri, simupeza chilichonse chokhudza munthu yemwe wamwalira kupitilira dzina lawo komanso milandu yabodza iyi yomwe adavomereza kuti achite zachiwerewere zamtundu uliwonse asanamwalire," adapitiliza McKenzie. "Ngati tikubwerera zaka za m'ma 90 ndi 2000, pali mayina azimayi omwe adalembedwa m'manyuzipepala pamitu ya mutu wa 'kinky sex mum', 'wophunzira wa koleji ya BDSM'."

Kuchita ndi mafunso okhudzana ndi mayendedwe azovuta zachiwerewere ndi zachiwawa kwakhala vuto mwachangu, osati chifukwa chakuti umboni ukuwonetsa kuti ndiwowopsa kwambiri kwa amayi, koma chifukwa ndi chiwonetsero cha chisokonezo chofala momwe anthu ochepera zaka 40 amagonana.

Kugonana konyansa kumeneku kwatchuka m'zaka zaposachedwa pakubwera kukhala nkhani kwa aliyense, komabe zandale zomwe zafala pakati pa achinyamata sizikudziwika mpaka pano. Kafukufuku wochitidwa ndi Savanta ComRes a BBC Radio 5 Sabata yatha adawonetsa kuti 38 peresenti ya azimayi azaka zosakwana 40 amakhala ndi "osafunikira" kumenya, kuthamangitsa, kapena kugonja panthawi yogonana. 42 peresenti ya azimayi awa anati akumverera kuti “akakamizidwa” kapena akakamizidwa. Kuchita zachiwerewere nthawi zambiri kumadziwika kuti kukuwonjezeka kwa zithunzi zolaula pakati pa anyamata. Koma, malinga ndi a Mary Sharpe a Mphoto ya Mphoto - munthu amene amakonda zolaula ndi maphunziro azakugonana - zolaula zilinso chimodzimodzi kwa akazi kuti apeze "zinthu zoyipazi kuti amve chilichonse".

"Pofika zaka 25, ndili mtsikana, mwina munaonerera zaka 10 zolaula," adatero Sharpe. Akukhulupirira kuti chikhalidwe chamakono chikulimbikitsa azimayi kuti aganize molakwika kuti azigonana mopitilira muyeso - izi zimayipa kwambiri pomwe anyamata "apanga kuti amayi akufuna kupakidwa". Chosokoneza apa ndikuti azimayi samangochita zachikhalidwe, koma kuti mwina idawumba zikhumbo zawo, ndikuwawuza kuti azitha kugonana zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa kukokomeza zomwe sizili zawo zonse ndikuziyika pachiwopsezo.

Kutsutsana kochita zachiwerewere kumathandizanso ku gulu la BDSM ndi machitidwe ake. Anthu abwereka zokongoletsa zake ndipo amayenera kuti ndi 'okhazikika' popanda kutengera malamulo ndi malangizo kuzungulira kuvomereza ndi chitetezo chomwe anthu ammudzimo amachita. Kubweretsedwa mdera lalikulu ndi (mosavomerezeka) Mithunzi ya 50 Zotsatira zake zangolimbikitsa kugwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika ndi kufotokozedwa molakwika kwa chikhalidwe ndi dera la BDSM, zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri kutsatira malamulo - chilolezo ndichikhalidwe cha kink, ndipo ngati mukuchita bwino komanso mosamala, mutha kulowa kapena kutuluka nthawi iliyonse .

"Zidakali zovuta kunena kuti izi zankhanza zokhudzana ndi nkhanza kwa amayi komanso momwe zatetezedwera zikunena za ife komanso nthawi yapano, koma tikalingalira, ndikofunikira kuti zotchinjiriza zikhazikitsidwe palamulo komanso pachikhalidwe"

Lingaliro linanso ndi momwe zachiwawa zomwe zimachitika pakati pa amuna ndi akazi zimagwirizana ndi "zovuta" pakumuna. Kuti abambo angakwaniritse njira zopitilira muyeso zowonetsa kulamulira ndi mphamvu munthawi yamavuto osakanikirana mwina ndizosavuta kutsimikiza, ndipo alibe umboni weniweni (komabe). Koma ndikofunikira kulingalira ngati amuna 'akubwerera' m'chipinda chogona komanso patali ndi anthu. Positi-MeToo mphindi yaponyera kugonana amuna kuti akhale achisokonezo: Amuna ena mwadzidzidzi apeza kuti zogonana zawo zam'mbuyomu zitha kukhala zosavomerezeka; ena amakwiya chifukwa cha kusintha komwe kwapita patsogolo ndi mphamvu yayikulu komanso kuthamanga chifukwa chathamangitsidwe.

Conor Creighton, wolemba komanso wotsogola wosinkhasinkha yemwe wayang'ana kuyang'anira zokambirana ndi kulingalirapo, akukhulupirira kuti pali "chisokonezo chambiri pa maubale" pakati pa abambo pakadali pano, koma osati wokwiya. "Sindikuganiza kuti abambo akwiya, koma mkwiyo ndiwokhawo womwe amuna amalimbikitsidwa kugawana," akutero. "Chifukwa chake, ngati munthu wapsinjika, wachisoni, kapena wasokonezeka, amakwiya, chifukwa ndi momwe timakhalira ndi anthu."

Zidali zovuta kunena kuti izi zankhanza zokhudzana ndi nkhanza kwa amayi komanso momwe zatetezedwera zikunena za ife komanso nthawi yapano, koma tikalingalira izi, ndikofunikira kuti zotchinjiriza zikhazikitsidwe palamulo komanso pachikhalidwe. Kumbali yalamulo, izi zikufotokozedwa ndi zomwe Sitingathe Kuvomereza Pulojekitiyi ndi cholinga chawo chowonjezerapo gawo ku Bill of Abuse Bill lomwe lingatsimikizire kuti mbiri yakugonana ya mkazi wakufa singagwiritsidwe ntchito pomutsutsa womupha. Pa mulingo wachikhalidwe, ndizovuta kudziwa komwe mungayambire. Kuvomereza kuti nkhanza kwa amayi kumadziwonetsera m'njira zobisika komanso zachinsinsi kumafunikira - ndipo kumafunikira mwachangu mwina - pokhapo pomwepo titha kuyesetsa kuthetsa vuto lomwe likukula komanso nthawi zina limakhala lowopsa momwe chidwi cha akazi ndi kukakamiza kwawo m'njira zakugonana omwe ali pachiwopsezo, ndikusiya chikhalidwe chathu sichikudziwika.

Zasindikizidwa pa intaneti pa 6th December 2019

Wothandizira Mary Sharpe amafotokoza za zolaula ndi umbanda pa The Nine

Wolimbikitsa Mary Sharpe adawonekera dzulo usiku pa BBC The Nine kukambirana zodziwika za zolaula zachiwawa, zomwe zakhala adatsindika kutsatira kutsutsika kwa munthu chifukwa chakupha Grace Millane November watha.

Ms Millane - wa kumbuyo wa 21 wa ku Britain - adaphedwa ku New Zealand pomwe anali pachibwenzi ndi mwamunayo.

Ms Sharpe, yemwe kuthandiza kwake Mphoto Yopindulitsa imapangitsa kafukufuku kudera lino kufikiridwa ndi anthu, ikufotokoza za zodabwitsazi komanso malamulo azitsimikiziro zaka UK Government.

Zolaula zam'manja zikuyendetsa achinyamata kuti azigonana

nkhani Wolemba Mark Howarth ndi Andrew Gregory Loweruka 5 Okutobala 2019

Chiwerengero cha achichepere ofuna thandizo chakwera. Alangizi amatsutsa makanema a "kugonana kwangwiro" owonedwa ndi ana aang'ono ngati zisanu ndi ziwiri

Chiwerengero cha achinyamata omwe akufuna chithandizo chogonana pa NHS chakwera kwambiri poyerekeza ndi zaka ziwiri, malinga ndi boma.

Akatswiri anena kuti kulumikizana kwa kuchuluka kwa zolaula pa ma foni awo ndi makanema azama TV, ndikunena kuti ana Yembekezerani kuti kugonana kumagona “nthawi zonse”.

Pazonse, ana 4,600 ndi achinyamata a zaka za 19 kapena omwe akufunika thandizo lamankhwala mu 2017-18 ndi 2018-19. M'zaka ziwiri zapitazi, panali anthu ena 1,400 omwe anawatumiza.

Pazonse, achinyamata amapanga 1 mwa 10 odwala omwe amalandila upangiri wakugonana, poyerekeza ndi 1 mwa 30 zaka zapitazo, NHS Digital inati.

Muriel O'Driscoll, mlangizi ndi othandizira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amathandizapo achinyamata, adati: "Ndi achinyamata nthawi zina, ngakhale kupezeka kwa maphunziro azakugonana, nthawi zambiri satero kudziwa zomwe akuchita kapena akuyembekeza kuti kugonana kuzikhala kwangwiro nthawi zonse.

"Sadziwa zomwe akuchita chifukwa atengera luso lawo pazanema kapena makanema olaula pa Facebook ndi makanema ena onse. Sizokhudza zenizeni - zenizeni sizili zangwiro. Nthawi zina kugonana kumagwira ntchito; nthawi zina sizitero.

“Akuyembekeza kuti anthu azitha kuchita phokoso. Komanso, ngati wachinyamata wakhala ndi vuto lalikulu pogonana, ndiye kuti zimasewera m'maganizo mwawo. ”

O'Driscoll, yemwe adagwirirapo ntchito malo a NHS ndi Brook Advisory Center ndipo tsopano amachita nawo paokha ku Merseyside, adatinso anyamata ndi atsikana nthawi zina amakhala ndi nkhawa kuti maliseche awo samawoneka ngati omwe amawawona pa intaneti.

Ana akupunthwa ndi zolaula pa intaneti kuyambira azaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, lipoti lomwe lapezeka mwezi watha. Kafukufukuyu, wochokera ku Britain Board of Film Classization, ananena kuti makolo atatu mwa atatu alionse amawona kuti mwana wawo sakanawona zolaula pa intaneti, koma opitilira theka ndi omwe adachita izi. Achichepere adafotokoza kuti adasokonezeka ndi zomwe adawona.

A Mary Sharpe, wamkulu wamkulu wa mabungwe othandizira bungwe la Reward Foundation, adati: "Kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri teknoloji kukupanga achinyamata omwe amakhala ndi nkhawa, nkhawa komanso amakhala ndi vuto logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kuchokera nthawi yayitali kwambiri mu 2006, kuchuluka kwa mavuto azaumoyo wawonjezereka pakati pa achinyamata. Kodi zimalumikizidwa?

"Makampani opanga intaneti ndi zolaula akuyesetsa kwambiri kuti akane, koma tikuganiza kuti ali olumikizidwa chifukwa nthawi zambiri zinthu zimatsimikizika kamodzi anthu akangomaliza kumene.”

Pa zaka ziwiri zapitazi, chiwerengero cha anthu azaka zonse kufunafuna thandizo chinakwera pang'ono kufika pa 47,300, pomwe 10% anali achinyamata.

A Claire Murdoch, director director a NHS England, adati: "Zomwe zikuwoneka bwino ndikufunika kwakuti madera ena ayambe kutenga mbali pazomwe akuchita, azikhala ndi udindo wowasamalira ndikuwononga njira zowonongeka pa intaneti - kotero NHS siyatsala kuti inyamule zigawo. ”

A Mary Sharpe agwidwa mawu munkhaniyi yolimba kwambiri yokhudza zamatsenga. CHENJEZO: Nkhani iyi ili ndi zinthu zomwe owerenga ena atha kuvutika nazo. Wolemba 27 September 2019.


Makampani achisoni bwanji akuyeretsedwa

Makampani achisoni bwanji akuyeretsedwa

Makhonsolo angapo apanga chitsogozo chakugonana ndi maubwenzi omwe amayang'aniridwa kwa ana ndi achinyamata, omwe amalephera kuyang'ana pazovuta zomwe zawonongeka zolaula. JO BARTOSCH akuti

JESSICA REDDING wamwalira sabata yatha; Coroner wa Los Angeles adatsimikizira kuti anali ndi zaka 40.

Adachita zolaula pansi pa dzina la Jessica Jaymes. Imfa yake isanakwane sichachilendo kwa iwo omwe amatchedwa "makampani azosangalatsa achikulire."

Kanema woyamba wa zolaula Redding wochitidwa anali Little Girl Lost, pomwe anali 16 chabe.

Lero, monga thupi la Jessica Redding likuyembekeza kuti wina adzalembetse ku Los Angeles, tsamba limodzi la webusayiti pano ku Britain likuwuza ana ochepera kuposa Redding anali pomwe adasewera filimu yake yoyamba kuti afunika kupitiriza zaka zawo zolaula.

Warwickshire County Council's Kudzilemekeza, yomwe imavomerezedwa ndi Public Health Warwickhire, amathandizira kuti izi zitheke monga nthano za zolaula.

Warwickshire ndi amodzi mwa makhonsolo ambiri kuti apange malangizo owonetsa kuti ali ndi vuto logonana komanso kuyanjana ndi ana, achinyamata ndi achinyamata.

Owerenga ena angaganize kuti vuto la ana kuonera zolaula ndilakuti limasokoneza kamvedwe kawo ka kugonana, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anyamata azitsatira zomwe awonera ndikuzunza atsikana m'masukulu (mosangalatsa Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa "anzanga" m'sukulu zawonjezeka ndi 521 peresenti ku Warwickshire pakati pa 2013-16).

Ena angatchule kuwuka labiaplasties kapena 40% ya akazi achichepere omwe akuti akukakamizidwa kuti agone, monga ziwonetsero kuti zolaula zikukhudza anthu.

Zonsezi zingakhale zolakwika, malinga ndi chiwongolero cha Respect Yourself, chomwe chimanena molimba mtima kuti "vuto lalikulu kwambiri kwa achinyamata omwe amawonera zolaula ndiwoti amawona ngati chinthu chomwe 'sayenera kuchita'.”

Poyesayesa kwawo kuti akhale ngati "ana ovuta," iwo omwe ali ndi malingaliro oterewa amadzinyenga.

Otsutsa omwe amayesa kunena kuti kuwonerera "Lesbian Anal Trainers 2," "Onse 3" kapena "Kapolo wa Usiku" (maina onse omwe amagulitsa bwino a Jessica Redding) omwe atchulidwa kale sangapatse mwana mwayi womvetsetsa momwe maubwenzi abwino amakhalira monga, ali kunja kwa-kukhudza phale-clutching prlies amene mwina akufuna kupenya bwino.

M'malo mwake, chifukwa chomwe azimayi ambiri ali achisoni pokhudzana ndi kupezeka kwa zolaula ndikuti chalanda mbadwo wa iPhone ufulu wokhala ndi lingaliro loona la kugonana.

Palibe cholakwika ndi kuwalimbikitsa achinyamata kuti kuseweretsa maliseche sikungawapangitse khungu, komanso kuti kungawathandize kumasuka m'matupi awo.

Koma liti mtsikana wazaka 12 walemba kutilemekezani, poganiza kuti adazolowera kuonera zolaula ndikuulula kuti akuziwonera "pakati pausiku," kuyankha sikunamuwuze kuti zolaula zinali zovulaza komanso sikunamutsimikizire kuti kugonana komanso kuzunzidwa komwe kumasonyezedwa sizomwe iye adachita angayembekezere ngati munthu wamkulu.

M'malo mwake, Ilemekezeni Mumatha lingaliro lakuti zolaula ndizosokoneza kapena zowonongeka mwanjira iliyonse.

Malinga ndi a Mary Sharp a Reward Foundation, zachifundo zophunzirira zachikondi, zakugonana ndi intaneti, izi sizowona.

Pofunsidwa koyambirira kwa chaka chino kwa Guardian, adafotokoza kuti: "Zolaula zowonjezera zimasintha momwe ana amakuliridwira ... ali ndi zaka zomwe amakhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu cha matenda amisala ndi malingaliro osokoneza bongo. Mavuto ambiri amisala ndi matenda amisala amayamba unyamata. ”

Zotsatira za izi zitha kuwoneka bwino mu mitengo ya kusokonekera kwa erectile, zomwe zawonjezeka kuchokera pa pafupifupi 2-3% ya azibambo omwe ali pansi pa 35 ku 2002 mpaka mozungulira 30 peresenti kuyambira nthawi yobwereza makanema osatulutsa zolaula.

Kwina kulikonse patsambali "mayankho a ubale" amauza ogwiritsa ntchito kuti asankhe mndandanda wazomwe angayankhe ngati atenga mnzake akuwona zolaula.

Kunena zoona tikudziwa kuti "bwenzi" loonera zolaula liyenera kukhala wamwamuna, komabe dzilemekezeni mokoma mtima limatikumbutsa "anyamata ndi atsikana omwe amaonera zolaula."

Ngakhale mutasankha njira "yotsitsa" kapena "yatentha", yankho ndikuyika pambali zovuta zilizonse chifukwa aliyense "amakonda chida."

Kunena zowonekeratu, kukhala ndi "chopeka" sindiyo vuto, zovuta zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi zithunzi zolaula zomwe mnzake akuchita.

M'malo moyanjanitsa anthu, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi chinsinsi chobweretsa maubwenzi.

Poyendera masamba azolaula omwe akupitilira iwo a Netflix, Amazon ndi Twitter ophatikizidwa, makampani ogonana mosakayikira adzapulumuka popanda thandizo laubwenzi kuchokera pagulu la Warwickshire.

Komabe, kalozera wa Honour You Your Owner pagulu limagwira ntchito pamalondawo, likulongosola kuti: "Makampani ogulitsa amuna ndi akazi ndi amodzi mwa ochepa mwa azimayi omwe amapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa abambo."

Kwa ocheperako pang'ono izi ndizowona. Mwachitsanzo, tengani a Sheena Shaw. Adzipangira dzina ngati "mfumukazi ya rosebudding. "

Rosebudding ndi mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito popanga zolaula kuti asinthe, pomwe ma rectum amakakamizidwa.

Izi ndizosawoneka bwino, monga Shaw adanenera motere: "Chikhalidwe chimatiphunzitsa zomwe tingakonde komanso zomwe tisakonde."

Amayi omwe amakhala ndi chiopsezo chopweteka, zovuta zamatumbo komanso kumatulutsa.

Magazini ya aVice itafunsa Shaw za zomwe angachite pakavulala, anayankha kuti: “Palibe amene amalankhulapo. Amakupangitsani kusayinira musanachite izi. Palibe chifukwa choti mulandire ndalama za antchito. ”

Mwinanso osapatsidwa zolaula zamasiku ano zolaula, omwe achoka m'makampaniwo amati mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kuzunza komanso kukakamiza okhala ndi phokoso; azimayi ambiri amakhala pakati pa miyezi itatu ndi 18 asanachoke.

Tikhale owona, palibe chomwe chingapatse mphamvu kuti rectum yako itulutsire kunja kwinaku ikutchedwa "hule," kulavulira ndi kutsamwitsidwa pa kamera.

Ngakhale izi zidachitika mwankhanza, buku la The Respect Yourself limati "kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti nyenyezi za akazi zolaula zimadzidalira kwambiri komanso zimakhutiritsa ntchito kuposa anthu wamba." Maphunzirowa sanatchulidwepo.

M'mudzi wokhala ndi zolaula, tifunika kuyang'anitsitsa ana ndikumakonzekeretsa ana pazomwe akuwona pa intaneti ndipo, mwachilungamo, ena mwa malangizo omwe mulemekezeni ndi achifundo komanso amaganiza.

Koma kusokonezedwa kwa makampani achisoni omwe amamangidwa pamavuto azimayi ndi atsikana sikungakhululukidwe.

Mu ntchito yake kuti iwoneke kukhala yoyenera, yokhazikika pa achinyamata komanso yoyanjananso, Warwickhire County Council imakhala pachiwopsezo kuukonzera m'badwo kuganiza kuti nkhanza zomwe zikuwonetsedwa mu zolaula sizabwinobwino, koma zofunika.

Jo Bartosch ndi director of Click Off, kampeni yofuna kuthetsa zolaula. Chonde pitani patsamba lake ndikuwona zopereka www.nubwol.org.

Mary Sharpe akuchulidwa kwambiri mu chidutswa ichi ndi Peter Diamond, yofalitsidwa pa 19 April 2019.

Scottish Catholic Observer

Zochitika zokhudzana ndi zolaula ku UK zimalandiridwa ndi otsatsa malonda, koma zofuna zaulere zaulere zikuwonetsedwa ndi Mpingo.

Akatolika adzalandira zaka zomwe zidzachitike pa zolaula ku UK, zomwe ziyenera kuchitika m'miyezi ikudzayi, ndipo adanena kuti Mpingo ukhoza kutsogolera polimbana ndi zowawa za zolaula.

Adalengezedwa sabata ino kuti zitsimikizo za zaka zotsatsa zolaula zidzayambidwa pa July 15.

Mukangoyambitsidwa, akuluakulu ayenera kutsimikizira kuti ali pamwamba pa 18 mwa kulemba zambiri kapena kugula voucher, kuti apeze zolaula.

Chilankhulo chaulere

Akatolika omwe amathandiza kulimbana ndi chizoloŵezi choledzeretsa ndi mpingo ku Scotland adalandiridwa, ngakhale akuchenjeza kuti ufulu wa kulankhula uyenera kutetezedwa ku boma.

Matt Fradd ndi wolemba Wachikatolika ndi wokamba nkhani pa zolaula ku US.

Iye posachedwapa anayambitsa pulogalamu yatsopano ya tsiku la 21 Strive21 kuti apulumutse anthu ku zowonongeka za zolaula.

"Ndine wokondwa chifukwa choletsedwa zolaula ku UK," adatero. "Sichidzasiya achinyamata omwe akuyesa kujambula zolaula koma tikuthokoza kuti tsopano tikuwonanso mtundu uwu wotsutsa.

"Mpingo uli ndi udindo wochita nawo nkhondo yolimbana ndi zolaula. Monga Katekisimu Wachikatolika amati, 'tinalengedwa m'chifanizo ndi maonekedwe a Mulungu,' ndipo chifukwa cha izi zimasintha momwe timaganizira za anthu. Chiphunzitso cha Tchalitchi pa nkhaniyi ndikuti zolaula zimatipangitsa ife - timatchedwa kuti tikhale mbuye wa zokhumba zathu. "

Zoipa zosadziwika

Bambo Fradd anawonjezera kuti: "Kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zagwiritsidwa ntchito mofulumira m'zaka zaposachedwapa ndipo ana ambiri omwe ali ndi zaka 8-12 akuwona zolaula ndipo ndizo nkhumba zazing'ono zomwe sitingadziwe bwino momwe zingakhalire zoipa mpaka zaka za 50 zitakhala pansi.

"Ndikuganiza kuti ndizochitika m'zaka za 50 anthu adzatigwedeza ndi kukhumudwa akuti, 'mungachite bwanji izi, mungathe bwanji kuti tiwone zinthu izi.'

"Ndi tsoka limene likuyembekezera kuti lichitike koma othokoza anthu ayamba kumvetsera ndi kudzuka ku zowawa za ana akuwonerera zolaula."

Strive21 inayambika ku US masabata awiri apitawo ndipo yayamba kale kukhala ndi amuna oposa 1,000 kulembetsa pulogalamu yoledzera, ndipo seminare ya Chikatolika yasonyeza chidwi chogwiritsira ntchito chida.

Kuledzera kumavulaza

Wansembe wa ku Scotland wakuphatikizidwa mu utumiki wa machiritso walandilapo chiletso chirichonse chomwe chingathandize kuthetsa kuledzera.

Canon William Fraser, wansembe wa parish of The Visitation Church ku Taynuilt, anati: "N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti ndawona kuipa kwauchidakwa kupyolera mu ntchito yanga mu utumiki wa machiritso.

"Kawirikawiri chizoloŵezi chogonana chimakhala chizoloŵezi kwa wina osati kungochita zolaula koma monga momwe amachitira 'kukhumudwitsa.' Izi zili ngati mtundu uliwonse wa zoledzeretsa kaya ndi zakumwa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi kuti "gawo lopweteka" lichiritsidwa ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kuthana ndi 'chizoloŵezi.' "

Canon Fraser adaonjezeranso kuti 'kuchotsa' wina ku zolaula akhoza kutenga gawo limodzi koma mu 'zovuta kwambiri' zingatenge miyezi ingapo kapena zaka kuti athetse.

"Nthawi zonse tifunikira kukumbutsidwa kuti mphamvu yomwe ili mwa ife kudzera mwa Yesu Khristu ndi yayikulu kwambiri kuposa mphamvu iliyonse padziko lapansi," Canon Fraser adanena kuti, "Mulungu adzatimasula ife monga momwe anagonjetsera tchimo lonse pamtanda. '

Statistics

Porn ndi makampani a £ 75 biliyoni padziko lonse. Kafukufuku wa 2016 wofalitsidwa ku Eastern Economic Journal anasonyeza kuti anthu omwe amaona zolaula nthawi zambiri sangakwatirane kuposa omwe sali.

Mary Sharpe ndiye mkulu ku The Reward Foundation, maphunziro othandizira maphunziro ochokera ku Scotland omwe amayang'ana sayansi yokhudza kugonana ndi chikondi.

Mkazi Sharpe adati: "Ife tikutsatira kwathunthu malamulo omwe akubwera. Nthawi zambiri makolo amaganiza kuti zolaula zimakhala zofanana ndi zaka 20 zapitazo, koma tsopano zikuipiraipira. Zimayendetsa zamwano zambiri.

"Zimakhudza kwambiri ubongo wa anthu, makamaka achinyamata omwe amadzikakamiza kuti ayambe kugwira ntchito."

Kuvomereza mapapa

Papa adalimbikitsa chikondi cha Ms Sharpe, ndipo akugwira ntchito ndi masukulu achikatolika kuti apange maphunziro othandizira aphunzitsi.

"Tikuganiza kuti malamulo atsopano ndi ofunikira. Sichidzathetsa vuto koma maphunziro ndi ofunika m'masukulu komanso m'nyumba. "

"Tikulenga ndi kupanga maphunzilo a sukulu ku Scotland, kuphatikizapo Akatolika, komwe tidzakhala nawo mogwirizana ndi ziphunzitso za Tchalitchi komanso zofuna za Mulungu zachikondi.

"Mipingo ndi mipingo ingathandize kwambiri kuthetsa vutoli. Ndikofunika kuti tiphunzitse Akatolika pa nkhaniyi ndipo mpingo sungathe kupemphera kuti nkhaniyi ichoke-iwo ayenera kumvetsera ndikuchita mwachikhulupiriro ndipo ngati atero angathe kutsogolera. "

Kupatsa mphamvu zaupatuko

Mary adanenanso kuti ansembe akhoza "kupatsidwa mphamvu" kuti akambirane nkhaniyi kapena kuwapatsa anthu malangizo omwe angapezeke kuti awathandize.

Akuluakulu ogwira ntchito polankhula amaletsa nkhaŵa kuti malamulo atsopano adzawona kuyankhula momasuka. Kuletsedwa kwa zolaula ndi mbali ya maboma ambiri pofuna kuchepetsa zomwe zimaonedwa ngati mawu odana pa intaneti.

Woimira katolika ku Scotland anati: "Ndikofunika kuti malamulo atsopano omwe amachititsa kuti 'kuvulaza pa Intaneti' ndi 'zinthu zonyansa' zikhale ndi ufulu wolankhula, kuganiza, chikumbumtima ndi chipembedzo chomwe chimapangitsa kuti asinthe malingaliro ndi kutsutsana, popanda mantha kapena kukonda.

"Kupeza chitetezo cha pa Intaneti kwa ana ndi magulu omwe ali ndi vutoli n'kofunika kwambiri. Popanda kutanthauzira zolinga za 'kuvulaza' komabe n'zovuta kuona momwe izi zingakhalire. "

"Kulola wolamulira wodziimira yekha kuti adziwe ngati zili zoopsa kapena zosagwirizana ndi zomwe zingalepheretse, zikhoza kulepheretsa kuwonetsera zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo."

SCES

Thupi la makolo a Katolika la ku Scotland lalandira zolaula.

Jo Soares, yemwe ali pulezidenti wa gulu la makolo a Scottish Catholic Education Service, anati: "Malamulo atsopano ayenera kuchititsa ana kukhala ovuta kugonana pa Intaneti kapena mwachangu.

"Ndikofunika kuti tipewe zolaula kuti ana athu asakhale ndi malingaliro osagwirizana ndi khalidwe la kugonana ndi kuvomereza kapena malingaliro olakwika a maubwenzi ndi zithunzi za thupi.

"Kuletsa zithunzi zolaula kwa anthu akuluakulu kungakhale zovuta kuti zitsogolere ana athu ku zinthu zomwe zimaphunzitsa mogwirizana ndi chikhulupiriro chathu mu ulemu wa munthu aliyense."

Viagra ngati mankhwala osokoneza bongo adawona a Mary Sharpe omwe adawalemba mu nkhani iyi ya Huffpost kuchokera 3 April 2019.

'Amazitenga Asanapite Ku Kalabu': Chifukwa Viagra Akugwiritsidwa Ntchito Ndi M'badwo Watsopano

Sipangokhala mankhwala kwa amuna okalamba, Viagra akugwiritsidwa ntchito mosangalatsa ndi anyamata omwe ali wamkulu. Wolemba

Aka kanali kachitatu kuti Alex * ayesere kuyikapo kondomu ndikulephera. Ngakhale adakwiya ndikuzindikira kuti uwu mwina ndi mwayi wake wokhawo wogona ndi mkazi yemwe adakumana naye m'mawa uja, sanathe kukhala chilili. Ngakhale kuti ubongo wake umafuna zochuluka motani, thupi lake silinali kuchita.

Pambuyo pake adavomereza izi, ndikupepesa mpaka nthawi yake chifukwa cha "ntchito yodandaula" - yomwe idakulitsidwa ndi malo ogulitsa mowa ndi cocaine - ndipo adalumbira kuti sadzachitanso. Tsiku lotsatira adapita kwa wopanga mankhwala ndipo adagula mapiritsi a 8 sildenafil, omwe amadziwika kuti Viagra.

Alex, ali ndi zaka zapakati pa makumi awiri, sakugwirizana ndi wogwiritsa ntchito Viagra: gulu limawonabe piritsi ya buluu ngati yolumikizana ndi amuna okalamba, mwina ndi thanzi labwino komanso kuvutika ndi ukalamba kapena matenda okhudzana ndi matenda okalamba. Koma nkhani ya Alex, ndi lingaliro lake logwiritsa ntchito viagra kuthana ndi vutoli, sizapadera.

Ndi miyezi ya 12 kuyambira pamene Viagra adapezeka ku UK popanda kulandira mankhwala. Madokotala amaganiza kuti agulitse amuna mankhwalawo, omwe amadziwika kuti 'Viagra Connect' ndipo opangidwa ndi opanga Pfizer, kutengera thanzi lawo komanso mankhwala ena omwe angakhale akumwa. Cholinga choyambirira poonjezera kupezeka kwa mankhwalawa mu 2018, chinali kuthana ndi kuchuluka kwa mapiritsi olakwika a erectile dysfunction akugulitsidwa molakwika pa intaneti. Koma lingaliroli lilinso ndi zotsatira zosayembekezereka zopangitsa kuti mankhwalawo agulike.

Murray Blacket, wogwirizira zakugonana kumpoto kwa London, akuti akuwona anyamata ambiri akutenga Viagra ngati "inshuwaransi" kapena "kuwombera" mchipinda. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala ngati asanapite usiku.

“Timalankhula za LGBT chemsex chochitika koma powonekera komweko kuli ngati masabata otayika omwe umakumanizana ndi munthu, tenga mankhwala osokoneza bongo a cocaine ndi Viagra, pita pansi dzenje la kalulu, tuluka Lolemba, "akutero Blacket.

Kutali kwa Ogasiti 2017, miyezi isanu ndi itatu asanagulitsidwe mumsewu wapamwamba, madokotala ku UK anali kunena Achinyamata ambiri omwe amagula mankhwalawo mosadziwa pa intaneti pofuna kukonza zogonana, kapena ngati Alex, kuti asagwiritsenso ntchito mankhwala ena osokoneza bongo omwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuti apangitse mamangidwe ake.

Anthu ku UK athekera kwambiri kuposa omwe amapezeka ku Europe, America, Australia kapena Canada, kuphatikiza kugonana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, malinga ndi 2019 Global Drug Survey, ngakhale atakhala kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi kapena okonda kugonana. Zinthu zomwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri anali mowa, cannabis, MDMA ndi cocaine - zonsezi zomwe zingalepheretse kugonana ngati mutamwa kwambiri.

Viagra imagwira ntchito mwa kuonetsetsa kuti magazi azitha kulowa mkati mwa mbolo kuti isayende. Imakhala alibe nthawi yomweyo ndipo imagwira ntchito pokhapokha mwamunayo atagonana. Chifukwa chake simukuyenda mozungulira kalabu yausiku ndikumangiriza maola ambiri, koma mudzatha kudalira ngati mungakhale ndi mwayi kumapeto kwausiku.

Blacket akuti ambiri mwa anyamata omwe amatenga ntchitoyi ndi akatswiri - aphunzitsi, maloya, ophunzitsa anzawo. Viagra siokwera mtengo monga kale, koma imayambiranso pa £ 19.99 phukusi la mapiritsi anayi kapena $ 34.99 kwa eyiti. Sotsika mtengo pazomwe zili, bwino, ndi 'zingachitike'.

“Achichepere samadalira kwenikweni maluso awo ogonana,” akutero a Blacket. "Anthu awa amatenga Viagra monga kukulitsa chidaliro. Sikuti kuchita zachiwerewere kwambiri - ndikuyenera kuchita zogonana wamba. ”

Kuchepa uku kulimba mtima nthawi zambiri zimalumikizidwa ndikuwonjezeka kwa chiwerengero cha anthu omwe nthawi zonse amawonera zolaula pa intaneti. Kafukufuku waposachedwa yemwe wapezeka pakati pa 14% ndi 35% ya anyamata achinyamata akuti amakumana ndi vuto la erectile poyerekeza ndi 2-3% isanachitike 2008. Mary Sharpe wa Mphoto ya Mphoto, zophunzitsa zothandiza kuyang'ana pa chikondi, kugonana ndi intaneti anauza Guardian: "Kungoyambira 2008, mutagwiritsa ntchito njira zolaula, zithunzi zolaula zimapezeka mosavuta, zakwera."

Kusintha kwa zibwenzi kumakhalanso ndi gawo lofunika, ”akutero a Blacket, chifukwa cha kukula kwa zibwenzi komanso kuyang'ana zochitika zogonana zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kuti azichita chidwi ndi zogonana. "Ngati sizingakuyendereni bwino anthu akhoza kumapita ndi kukakumana ndi munthu wina," akutero. "Chikhalidwe cha usiku umodzi ndichosinthana pankhaniyi. Ukhala ndi mwayi umodzi. ”

Sikuti pali kukakamizidwa kowonjezereka kuti mukhale okonzekera zogonana, koma zochuluka zogonana zimakonzedwa ndi kupezeka kwa mowa ndi mankhwala ena omwe amaletsa kuchita. Amuna awa nthawi zambiri amagonana ndikumwa, ngakhale osatinso mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kutenga Viagra kumawoneka ngati kukugwirizana ndi lingaliro la 'Nditha kukhala ndi zolemba zingapo ndipo nditha kuzichita'. ”

Ndipo lingaliroli likukulira, popeza Viagra ikhazikika muchikhalidwe chachikulu, akutero Blacket. "Pakadali pano pali zotsatsa pa Underground komanso kumbali yama basi a Viagra [operekedwa] ku Vespa. Makampaniwa awona kusintha pamsika ndipo akupanga ndalama kwambiri. ”

Zikuwoneka kuti kukhala ndi kampani yamakolo a Deliveroo yomwe imabweretsa Viagra pakhomo lanu yathandizira kuti mankhwalawa akhale osangalatsa kwa achinyamata. M'malo mochulukitsa ku kanyumba ka bafa konko, mutha kuyitanitsa momwe mungachitire pitsa. Kusintha kwachikhalidwe ichi kwapangitsa kuti Blacket aziona amuna ochepa osadandaula ndi momwe angachitire, omwe akuganiza kuti kutenga Viagra kungawapangitse "kukhala ovuta" komanso kugonana ndizosangalatsa.

Blacket ili ndi nkhawa kuti ena mwa omwe amasankha kugwiritsa ntchito Viagra mosangalala amamwa mayeza kuposa momwe angafunire. Ambiri amatenga mapiritsi a 100mg, pomwe a NHS amalimbikitsa kumwa 50mg kamodzi patsiku. "Anthu sakudziwa kwenikweni tanthauzo la mankhwalawa - amagwiritsa ntchito mavitamini pakungotenga zochulukirapo." akufotokoza. ”

Kutenga sildenafil yochulukirapo kumatha kubweretsa mavuto osapweteka monga mutu, chizungulire, kudzimbidwa, mphuno ndi mawonekedwe osinthika. "Ndawafunsa ena momwe amverera tsiku lotsatira ndipo akunena zabodza," akutero. Ambiri a iwo abwera kwa ine kudzafunsa kuti 'Kodi ndizikhala ndi nkhawa? Kodi ndingachite bwanji izi? ”

Zimamupangitsa kuti azikhala ndi nkhawa kuti anthu akugwiritsa ntchito mapiritsiwa kupaka zinthu zazikulu, zakuya zomwe zikulepheretsa moyo wawo wogonana. "Aika zida zothandizira bvuto la Viagra. Izi ziyenera kukhala kwakanthawi. ”

Ndemanga za Mary Sharpe mu Nkhani ya March 11 ku The Guardian inapezeka pa tsambali la webusaiti ya Katolika LifeSiteNews. Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza kuti tikulemekeza kuphatikizapo neurosurgeon Dr Donald Hilton ndi yourbrainonporn.com.

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/internet-porn-the-highly-addictive-narcotic-emasculating-young-men-through-erectile-dysfunction


March 29, 2019, (LifeSiteNews) - Anyamata akufunkhidwa ndi kuthekera kwawo kuyanjana ndi chikhalidwe chachiwerewere ndi akazi monga momwe kuyang'ana zolaula kawirikawiri kumabwezeretsanso ubongo wawo, kumachepetsa mphamvu zawo zogonana.

Mwachidziwitso, amuna am'nyamata ali ndi zaka zapakati pa zaka khumi ndi zisanu (12) amakhala akuloledwa kugonana, kukondana, kutsutsana ndi kubereka, kutsutsana chikondi, kutsutsana, ndi chisangalalo.

Ndipo chithandizo chimenecho chimaperekedwa kwaulere kudzera pa intaneti.

"Mpakana 2002, chiwerengero cha amuna pansi pa 40 ndi ED (erectile dysfunction) chinali pafupi 2-3 peresenti," Mary Sharpe wa Mphoto ya Mphoto adanena The Guardian. "Kuchokera ku 2008, pamene kusuntha kwaulere, zolaula zapamwamba zowonekera kwambiri, zakula mofulumira."

"(P) orn akusintha momwe ana amachitira zogonana," anapitiriza Sharpe, ndipo zikuchitika, "ali ndi zaka zomwe angathe kusokonezeka ndi matenda ndi matenda osokoneza maganizo. Zizoloŵezi zambiri ndi matenda a matenda a m'maganizo amayamba m'zaka zaunyamata. "

Nkhani ya Guardian inati, "Kuposa atatu mwa anyamata tsopano akukumana ndi vuto lopweteka la erectile."

Chodabwitsachi chakula kwambiri moti chiri ndi dzina: "Erectile Dysfunction" (PIED).

"M'malo momangokhalira kugonana ndi anthu enieni, mwana wachinyamata masiku ano amapezeka pamaso pa chinsalu, ndipo akuwongolera maulendo ake opatsirana pogonana kuti akhale yekha m'chipinda chake, kuti azichita nawo mbali m'malo mochita nawo mbali," inatero kanema yovomerezeka, Ubongo Wachikulire Umathamanga pa Webusaiti Yowopsa Kwambiri pa Intaneti.

Mnyamata ndi mawu amene ndingagwiritse ntchito pofotokoza mmene ndinamvera ndikayesa kugonana ndi akazi enieni, "anatero mnyamatayo yemwe watchulidwa mu kanema. "Zinkaoneka ngati zonyansa komanso zachilendo kwa ine."

"Zili ngati ine ndakhala ndikukonzekera kukhala pansi kutsogolo kwa chinsalu (kuseweretsa maliseche) kuti malingaliro anga akuwona kuti kukhala chizolowezi chogonana m'malo mogonana kwenikweni," adatero.

"Azimayi samanditembenuzira, pokhapokha atapangidwa awiri ndi kumbuyo kwa galasi yanga yowunika," anatero wina.

Ena amalongosola chiyembekezo chawo chokha chokhazikitsa ndi kusunga chisamaliro pachibwenzi ndi "kulingalira zolaula."

Popeza zodabwitsazi ndizatsopano - ndiponsotu, kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti yothamanga kwambiri komanso kulumikizana mosavuta, kwachinsinsi kudzera pama foni am'manja, iPads, ndi ma laputopu apakompyuta ndizatsopano zatsopano - maphunziro owunikira akuyenera kuchitidwa.

Pakadali pano, umboni wotsutsana ndi anthu okhudzidwa ndi anthu okhudzana ndi maganizo, kuphatikizapo akatswiri a maganizo, odwala matenda a maganizo, ndi urologists - akunena kuti akumva zowawa zamtunduwu kuchokera kwa anyamata omwe adakhalapo pachimake pa ubwino wogonana.

Urologist Paul Church anauza LifeSiteNews kuti pakalipano palibe umboni weniweni wa mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile, vutoli "ndimadokotala komanso othandizira ambiri, kuphatikizapo ndekha, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi vuto lalikulu kwa mbadwo wotsatira uno. "

"N'zovuta kudziŵa kuti anyamata ambiri akuvutika ndi zolaula. Koma n'zoonekeratu kuti izi ndizochitika zatsopano, ndipo sizodziwika, " adatchulidwa Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, mtsogoleri wa Men's Health Boston ndi pulofesa wa urology ku Harvard Medical School.

"Ndikudziwa kuti izi ndizoona chifukwa cha zomwe ndimakumana nazo ndi izi zikuchitika kwa anthu omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito," adatero Maureen Newberg, wogwira ntchito zachipatala wothandizira (LCSW) ogwira ntchito m'dera la Washington, DC.

"Ndili payekha pomwe peresenti ya 95 ya makasitomala anga ndi anyamata ndi amuna. Otsatsa onsewa ali ndi vuto la zolaula kapena chizoloŵezi chogonana, "David Pickup, yemwe ali ndi chilolezo chokwatilidwa ndi banja, adamuuza LifeSiteNews.

"Zomwe ndimakumana nazo pa nkhani zawo ndi kupambana kwawo kutulukira zolaula zachititsa kuti apeze kuti zolaula ndizo 'mankhwala,'" anatero.

Kuledzera, monga zizoloŵezi zina, kumasokoneza miyoyo ya achinyamata onse. Katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku Ulaya, Dr. Gerard van den Aardweg, anati:

Amayi omwe ali akapolo ndi amuna osauka, otalikirana ndi anzawo. Mimbulu yokhayokha. Zowonera zolaula, amalimbitsa chidwi chawo chokhala makanda ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala "wamkulu," ndipo pomwe sangakwanitse kulumikizana.

Zotsatira zosayembekezereka, zosayembekezereka zomwe achinyamata amachita nthawi zambiri zolaula mwinamwake zimawonjezera kupweteka kwa erectile ndi kuchepetsa ubale wabwino m'banja.

Mark Regnerus, pulofesa wa zaumulungu ku yunivesite ya Texas ku Austin ndi munthu wamkulu ku Austin Institute for Phunziro la Banja ndi Chikhalidwe, adanena Kugwirizana pakati pa kugonana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumbuyo kwa 2012.

Wosaka adatchulidwa kuti "Amuna achikulire omwe akuthandizira kubwezeretsa ukwati sizingakhale zokhazokha zowonjezera ufulu, ufulu, ufulu, ndi kudzipereka kwabwino. Zingakhale, mwina mbali imodzi, chifukwa chowonetsedwa nthawi zonse ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zogonana, "anawona kudzera pa zolaula pa intaneti.

"Mafilimu otchuka kwambiri pa webusaiti amachititsa kuti anthu asamagwirizane - kapena gulu linalake - kuchokera ku Regnerus. "Gazers amathandizidwa ndi phula lozimitsa moto".

"Awa sali agogo ako a Playboy," adatero.

Mphamvu zoopsa zowononga zolaula kudzera pa intaneti

Pamene nkhondo ya ufulu wa kulankhula "ufulu" wa ojambula zithunzi ndi mafakitale awo yakhala ikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa zaka zambiri, owerengeka sanazindikire kuti anyamata achichepere akuwonongeka. Tsopano kuwonongeka sikungatheke kunyalanyaza.

Dr. Donald Hilton, pulofesa wothandizira pa Dipatimenti ya Neurosurgery, University of Texas Medical School ku San Antonio komanso membala wa Board of Directors of Medical Institute for kugonana Health, adalemba mu nkhani yotchedwa Zithunzi Zolaula: Kuyatsa Moto Wakugonana. Chowopsa (sichikupezekanso).

Ndi kulikonse. Tsamba lachiwiri lochezera kwambiri pa webusaitiyi linali ndi anthu a 92 mabiliyoni omwe amafika ku 2016, okwanira mavidiyo a 12.5 kwa munthu aliyense padziko lapansi. Yakhala njira yoyamba yophunzitsira achinyamata kugonana komanso ngakhale kutetezeka tsopano, ndi achinyamata ambiri omwe adawona kugonana, kuphatikizapo pakati pa anthu awiri.

Kutulutsa zakugonana koopsa pa umunthu kumawononga iwo omwe amaziwona ndipo ndizosokoneza kwa iwo omwe akupitiliza kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Komabe, mfundo izi zimatsutsidwa mwamphamvu ndi ogulitsa zolaula komanso omwe amapeputsa omwe amaphunzitsa izi. Amati vuto lokhalo lokhala ndi zolaula ndichomvetsa manyazi komanso chikhalidwe chomwe zipembedzo zimakhazikitsa.

Dr. Jeffrey Satinover, mu mawu atatumizidwa ku komiti ya Senate ya ku United States ku 2008, anafotokoza kuti: "Zakhala zikuwoneka kuti zolaula ndizomwe zikutanthauza. Kuika kwake kuyenerera, kusowa kwake, kapena zoipa nthawi zonse zakhala zikukangana pazinthu zoyenera 'kufotokoza,' ndipo malamulo athu amasonyeza zambiri. Timatsutsana ndi 'makhalidwe' a zolaula; chikhalidwe chake monga 'mkulu' kapena 'low' luso; kaya ali ndi 'kuwombola mtengo.' Zolemba za 'ntchito' zolaula 'zolemba zolaula' ndi 'kuchita' zovina zolaula zimayikidwa pa malamulo apamwamba a malamulo a ku America-mawu omwe ali m'zolemba zotsindika zomwe zikuwonekeratu kuti kumvetsetsa kwa zolaula monga chiwonetsero ndi maziko ndi osatsutsika. "

"Pakufika kompyutayi, njira yoperekera kwa zovuta zowonongeka (intaneti zolaula) zakhala zotsutsana kwambiri," anapitiriza Satinover.

"Zili ngati kuti takhala tikupanga mawonekedwe a heroin 100 nthawi zamphamvu kwambiri kuposa kale, zogwiritsidwa ntchito pakhomo pakhomo pawo ndipo zimayikidwa mwachindunji ku ubongo kudzera m'maso," adawonjezera Satinover. "Tsopano ilipo mosalekeza kuperekera kudzera mwachindunji chogawidwa, kutamandidwa ngati luso komanso kutetezedwa ndi Malamulo oyendetsera dziko lino."

Kukonza zowonongeka

Dr. Tim Lock, katswiri wa zamaganizo komanso wothandizira pulofesiti ku Institute for the Psychological Sciences, Divine Mercy University, anati: "Kugonjetsedwa ndi kugonana kwapachiwerewere ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pano."

PIED adzakhala ndi ife "mpaka anthu atha kukwatulidwa ndi mphamvu ya kudziletsa ndipo makolo akhoza kutsimikiza kufunika kogwiritsa ntchito mafayilo a intaneti (ndi intaneti kuyankha) kuti ateteze ana awo kuti asafike ku malo osayenera," adatero Lock mu mawu ku LifeSiteNews. "Sizaphweka kapena zopanda mphamvu kulera mwana amene amadziletsa kudziletsa, chiyero, chiyero, ndi kudzichepetsa. Aphunzitsi a ana ayenera poyamba kukhala otsimikiza za mfundo izi. "

"Ndizovuta kugulitsa," anatero Lock. "Mukapanda kudziwa kuti Mbuye wathu adadza kudzapatsa moyo, ndikuupatsa."

Dr. Hilton akufotokoza zofunikira zinayi zofunika:

  • Choyamba, tiyenera kuteteza mbadwo wotsatira ku chiwerewere choopsa cholimbikitsidwa ndi makampani opanga zolaula ndi olemba mapemphero ake;
  • Chachiwiri, tiyenera kubwerera kudziko kumene akuluakulu amakana zolaula;
  • Chachitatu, chikhalidwe chathu chochuluka sichisamala za tsankho ndi kugonana, komabe timakondwerera onse ngati anthu akuchita zogonana komanso makamera akusuntha. Tiyenera kugwirizanitsa makampani oonera zolaula kukhala ofanana;
  • Chachinayi, tiyenera kubwerera ku chikhalidwe cha ulemu, chifundo, ndi chifundo, zomwe zikutsutsana ndi chikhalidwe cha masiku ano.

Zambiri zokhudzana ndi kusiya zolaula komanso kuthawa zotsatira zake zingapezeke pa webusaiti yothandiza, Ubongo Wanu pa Zithunzi.

Yankho lochokera kwachikhristu ku ukapolo wa zolaula likuperekedwa ndi Yesetsani.

11 March 2019. M'njira yaikulu ya moyo Amy Fleming, Mary Sharpe anatchulidwa kwambiri The Guardian pa zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito komanso kuwonongeka kwa erectile.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction

Kodi zolaula zimapangitsa anyamata kukhala opanda mphamvu?

Kufikira gawo limodzi mwa atatu mwa anyamata tsopano akukumana ndi vuto la erectile. Ena akuyang'ana ku zowonongeka monga penile implants - koma kukana zolaula kumachita njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli?

Kusokonekera kwa Erectile
 Chitsanzo: Nishant Choksi

TPano pali pulogalamu yotsatsa malonda a London Underground omwe ali ndi mawu akuti "ED IS DEAD" pafupi ndi chithunzi cha munthu wooneka bwino payekha. "Musadandaule," imatero polemba kulembera pansi. "Ed si mnyamata. Ndi chinthu chamnyamata. Ndizochepa kwa zovuta za erectile. "Ma posters akulimbikitsa chizindikiro chatsopano Sildenafil (omwe amadziwika kuti Viagra), omwe timayenera kuganiza ndikupha vutoli. Koma, monga zikuyimira, ED ali kutali ndi akufa.

Msika wachitsulo wamtunduwu umagwiritsidwa ntchito kukhala amuna achikulire odwala, koma malinga ndi kafukufuku ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa, pakati pa 14% ndi 35% a anyamata akumana ndi ED. "Ndizopenga koma zoona," akutero Mary Sharpe wa Mphoto ya Mphoto, chikondi chophunzitsidwa za chikondi, kugonana ndi intaneti. "Mpakana 2002, chiwerengero cha amuna pansi pa 40 ndi ED chinali pafupi 2-3%. Kuchokera ku 2008, pamene kusuntha kwaulere, zolaula zapamwamba zowonongeka kwambiri zakhala zikupezeka mosavuta, zawonjezeka mofulumira. "Umboni, mankhwala komanso zachilendo, zikuwoneka kuti zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri.

Kugwirizanitsa ED ndi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito

Clare Faulkner, wogonana ndi chiwerewere komanso wogwirizana ndi azimayi omwe ali pakatikati pa London, ali pakati pa omwe akugwirizanitsa ED ndi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito. "Tsopano ndili ndi makasitomala a ED mu ma 20 awo oyambirira," akutero. Chimodzi mwa vuto la zolaula ndikuti "ndizosiyana kwambiri. Kulimbikitsana kukubwera kunja, komwe kungapangitse kukhala kovuta kukhala m'thupi lanu. "Zimapititsanso nthano, akuti," Amuna ndi olimba kwambiri ndipo amayi ali okonzeka kugonana nthawi zonse ".

Owonerera okha zolaula amazoloŵera kukhala olamulidwa bwino ndi zochitika zawo zogonana - zomwe, kachiwiri, akuti Faulkner, "sichiwerengedwanso mu dziko lenileni". Kukhala moyang'anizana ndi munthu weniweni, wovuta, wokhala ndi zosowa ndi zosatetezeka, zingakhale zakuya-kuziyika.

PIED

M'masewera a pa Intaneti omwe amaperekedwa ku Erectile Dysfunction (PIED), anyamata masauzande amagawana zovuta zawo kuti asiye kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula, kupita patsogolo kwawo kuchokera ku zolaula mpaka zovuta komanso zolepheretsa zomwe akumana nazo pakupanga ubale weniweni ndi kugonana. Ziri zovuta kutsimikizira kuti zolaula zimayambitsa ED, koma maumboniwa amatsutsa zomwe akupeza kuchokera kuchipatala: kuti ngati abambo angayambe chizoloŵezi chawo cholaula, amayamba kuyambiranso kuthetsa chibwenzi chawo.

Anyamata ena ayamba kusuntha kayendedwe kake, monga NoFap (slang "osasula maliseche"), lozikidwa ku US ndi Alexander Rhodes. (Sharpe akuwona kuti anyamata "tsopano amatsutsa maliseche ndi zolaula - saziwona mosiyana.") Rhodes, tsopano 31, adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti 11 kapena 12. "Ndinali m'badwo woyamba wa anthu amene anakula mofulumira kwambiri pa intaneti," adatero m'makambidwe atsopano a pa intaneti.

Pa nthawi yomwe anayamba kugonana pa 19, anapitiriza kuti: "Sindinathe kumangoganizira za zolaula. Pulogalamu yolaula kwambiri pa intaneti inali maphunziro anga opatsirana pogonana. "Chaka chatha, adauza omvera ku National Center ku US Sexual Exploitation:" Ana a ku United States ndi ambiri mwa dziko lotukuka akufufuzidwa kudzera pa zochitika pa Intaneti zomwe zimawonetsa zolaula ndizovomerezeka. "

Ogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi akuyamba achinyamata

Zaka zomwe Rhodes adayamba kuwonera zolaula si zachilendo. Mu 2016, University of Middlesex idapeza kuti, ndi 60% ya ana omwe adaziwonera koyamba m'nyumba zawo. Ndipo maphunziro a Irish lofalitsidwa kumayambiriro kwa chaka chino mu nyuzipepala ya Porn Studies, anapeza kuti 52% ya anyamata anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pogwiritsa ntchito maliseche pamsinkhu wa 13 kapena pansi. Zolinga zamalonda zingakhale pakhomo, akuti Sharpe. "Nyenyezi zolaula zili ndi akaunti ya Instagram kotero iwo akuwombera ana kuziwona pa Instagram, ndipo mkati mwazinthu zawo adzati: 'Tawonani kanema yanga yatsopano.' Mmodzi kapena awiri akugwedeza ndipo mukuyang'ana zolaula zovuta. Ana a 12 kapena 13 sayenera kuyang'anitsitsa zinthu zovuta kwambiri. "

Sharpe Foundation sizinthu zolimbana ndi zolaula, "adatero Sharpe," koma zolaula zimasintha momwe ana amachitira zogonana ". Ndipo zikuchitika m'zaka zawo zogwira ntchito, "ali ndi zaka zomwe angathe kuvutika kwambiri ndi matenda ndi matenda osokonezeka maganizo. Zizoloŵezi zambiri ndi mavuto a matenda a maganizo amayamba m'zaka zaunyamata. "Iye ndi Faulkner amakhulupirira kuti kuonera zolaula kumagwiritsira ntchito mwina chifukwa chake Zaka zikwizikwi zikugonana pang'ono kusiyana ndi mbadwo wawo, malinga ndi kafukufuku wofalitsidwa m'magazini yotchedwa Archives of Sexual Behavior.

Zomwe zimachitikira munthu

Gabe Deem, yemwe anayambitsa zolaula zolaula gulu Yambani mtundu, amalankhula poyera za zochitika zake. Pamene anali 23, iye anati: "Ndinayesa kugonana ndi mtsikana wokongola, mkazi yemwe ndinkamukonda kwambiri, ndipo palibe chomwe chinachitika. Sindinamvepo ndikukweza thupi ndipo sindinapezeko pang'ono. "

Mofanana ndi zizoloŵezi zina, akuti Faulkner: "Anthu amafunika kwambiri mlingo kuti apite pamwamba. Nthaŵi zonse ndikuthamangira malire kuti mukhale ndi chimwemwe chomwecho. Izi zikutanthawuza zomwe iwo akuyang'ana zimakhala zovuta kwambiri komanso zowopsya. Ndakhala ndi makasitomala akundiuza kuti samasangalala ndi zomwe akuonera. "Akatswiri ofufuza akamaphunzira za ubongo wa anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, Sharpe anati:" Akuona kuti kusintha kumeneku kumafala kwambiri m'zovuta zonse. "

Kuda Nkhawa Kwambiri

Ena amatsutsa kuwonjezeka kwa ED pakati pa anyamata nkhawa, koma Sharpe akunena pamene izi zikhoza kukhala zoona kwa ena, "Zimene timamva kuchokera kwa madokotala, ogwira ntchito zachipatala, madokotala ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana ndizoti zoposa 80% zokhudzana ndi zolaula". akhala akugwira ntchito zokambirana ndi ogwira ntchito zachipatala ku UK ndipo adapeza kuti madokotala ndi asamalonda samaganizira ngakhale kupempha odwala amuna awo omwe ali ndi ED za zolaula zawo. "Akuwapatsa Viagra ndipo sagwira ntchito zambiri," akutero Sharpe. "Sikulimbana ndi vutoli."

Mankhwalawa sagwire ntchito, Sharpe amva za anyamata akupeza mapeni a penile (prosthetics omwe amalowetsedwa mu mbolo kuti awathandize. "Mmodzi mwa omwe adagwira nawo ntchito zachipatala pamsonkhano wina chaka chatha adati wodwalayo anali ndi ziphuphu ziwirizi." Palibe amene adaganiza kumufunsa za zolaula.

Pa ulendo wapita kusukulu, Sharpe akukumbukira, mnyamata wamnyamata anamufunsa kuti kangati patsiku kuonera zolaula kunali kochuluka. "Akugwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse," akutero Sharpe, "ndipo palibe amene akuwauza kuti ndi vuto."

24 February 2019. Mary Sharpe adapereka ndemanga pa akatswiri pankhaniyi yomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ku makhothi aku Scottish. Zinasokoneza mtunduwo. Nkhaniyi imapezekanso mu The Sunday Post ngati ""

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