chilolezo ndi achinyamata

Chivomerezo ndi achinyamata

Nkhani yothetsera kugonana ndi achinyamata ndi yovuta.

Zaka zogonana ndi mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana ndi 16 kwa amuna ndi akazi, kotero kuti kugonana kulikonse pakati pa munthu wamkulu ndi wina pansi pa 16 ndi kulakwitsa. Zaka zovomerezeka ndizofanana mosasamala za kugonana kapena kugonana.

Kugonana (kugonana, abambo) ndi kugonana kwachinsinsi pakati pa achinyamata a 13-15 ndizolakwira, ngakhale onse awiri akuvomereza. Kutetezeka kotheka kungakhale kuti mmodzi wa abwenzi amakhulupirira winayo kukhala wamkulu 16 kapena kupitirira.

Pali zotetezeka ngati zochitika zogonana siziphatikizapo kugonana kolowera kapena pakamwa. Izi ndizo ngati munthu wachikulire amakhulupirira kuti wachinyamatayo ali ndi zaka 16 kapena zaka zambiri ndipo sanagwiritsidwepo mlandu wofanana, kapena kusiyana kwa zaka zaka zosachepera zaka ziwiri.

Malangizo ochokera ku Boma la Scotland amavomereza kuti sizinthu zonse zokhudzana ndi kugonana m'kati mwa 16s zomwe zimakhala ndi nkhawa za ana, koma achinyamata angakhalebe akusowa thandizo pokhudzana ndi chitukuko cha kugonana ndi ubale wawo.

Izi ndizochepa kanema za chilolezo pankhani zogonana. Itha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kutsegula zokambirana pamutu wofunikawu. Pomwe anthu ena amaganiza kuti zokambirana pazakugonana ziyenera kukhala za makolo okha, pali gawo lofunikira m'masukulu oti achite makamaka pophunzitsa za sayansi zomwe zimakhudza zolaula. Makolo akuyenera kukhala omasuka pazomwe zikuchitika m'derali komanso kuti azilankhula pafupipafupi ndi ana awo za izi. Makolo ndiwo zitsanzo zabwino komanso otsogola pamoyo wamwana aliyense, ngakhale akuwoneka kuti ndiopanduka.

Kuvomereza kugonana ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri, makamaka pakati pa achinyamata ndi achinyamata oyambirira. Aliyense akukamba za kugonana ndipo ambiri akukangana wina ndi mnzake kuti awone yemwe ayamba kuyesa ntchito zatsopano. The mwayi ambiri zolaula kudzera mafoni ndi miyala zikutanthauza kuti achinyamata kuphunzira za kugonana ndi 'chikondi' kuchokera zolaula asangalatsi malonda m'njira makolo ambiri kupeza chonyansa. Zithunzi zolaula masiku ano sizili ngati zovuta Mtundu wa Playboy magazini akale. Chiwawa, nkhanza komanso nkhanza kwa amayi kapena abambo achikazi ndizofala pafupifupi 90% yamavidiyo omwe amapezeka mwaulere. Kuonera izi tsiku ndi tsiku kwa zaka zambiri musanakhalepo ndi munthu weniweni kumatha kupangitsa kuti achinyamata azimvetsetsa, amuna kapena akazi, pankhani yotetezeka, yachikondi, komanso yogonana.

Atsikana amafuna kukhala okondedwa, owonedwa ngati okonda kugonana ndipo kawirikawiri amakhala omasuka kukonda. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ali okonzeka kugonana. Iwo akungophunzira momwe angagwirire ndi matupi awo opondereza. Pamene akuchita ndi kuyesa mawonekedwe atsopano ndi makhalidwe awo, amawoneka ngati kuseketsa kwa anyamata. Kuphunzira za malire ndi zolakwitsa ndi mbali yachizolowezi yophunzira za kuyankhulana. Mtsikana wina wazaka zapakati pa 16,

"Sindikudziwa chimene ndikufuna. Ndikungofuna kuti ndikukondweretse ... Ndikufuna kuyesa zomwe wina aliyense akunena ndikuti akuchita. "

Ananenanso kuti adakakamizidwa kuchita zachiwerewere zomwe adanong'oneza nazo pambuyo pake. Safuna kuchititsidwa manyazi ngati hule. Atsikana ambiri amaganiza kuti ndi “kupanda ulemu” kulekerera anyamata atayamba 'kuyandikira ndi kukhala anthu anzawo'. Amayi azaka zonse ayenera kuphunzira momwe angakhalire olimbikira komanso kukhazikitsa malire omveka bwino pazomwe ali omasuka kuchita.

Boys Kumbali ina imakhala ndi mphamvu zamphamvu zogonana zomwe zimafuna kuyesa galimoto ndi wokondedwa. Amafunanso kuwoneka ngati amuna enieni pamaso pa amuna ena. Amatha kukhala otsimikiza mtima komanso osakwatiwa kuti akwaniritse zolingazo. Kukhulupirika kwa gulu lachimuna kawirikawiri kumakhala kolimba kwambiri kusiyana ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala pachibwenzi kapena kukwatirana ndi mtsikana. Iwo akungophunzira kulamulira mphamvu yatsopano yogonana mu matupi awo. Amakhalanso ovuta kupanga zolakwa zazikulu za zomwe wokondedwa amavomereza.

Kotero pamene matupi angakhale akutsutsana, osadziŵa, zizindikiro zogonana, sizikutanthauza kuti maganizo a munthu aliyense ali okonzeka kugonana nawo mofanana ndi ena. Ngakhalenso nthawizonse ndi mwamuna yemwe ali wamphamvu kwambiri, akazi ambiri amatsogolera poyambitsa chiwerewere. Apa ndilo nkhani zovuta zovomerezeka, kuyesa kugwiriridwa ndi kugwiririra mbewu.

Kuphunzitsa achinyamata za kuyankhulana momasuka ndizofunika kwambiri kuti chitukuko chogonana chikhale bwino.

Izi ndizo zowunikira zalamulo ndipo sizinapangidwe uphungu walamulo.

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