Kuwongolera Kwa Kwaulere Kwa Zolaula Zapaintaneti

MALANGIZO OYERA A Makolo Otsatira Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti

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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Monga makolo komanso osamalira ndinu zitsanzo zofunika kwambiri komanso chitsogozo kwa ana anu. Kuwongolera kwa makolo awa pa zolaula pa intaneti kudzakuthandizani kuti mukhale olimba mtima kuti mudzakhale ndi zokambirana zovuta. Phunzirani za zovuta zam'maganizo ndi zakuthupi za zolaula, momwe zimakhudzira anthu, komanso zomwe zimakhudza malamulo. Masiku ano zolaula ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi zolaula zam'mbuyomu malinga ndi zomwe zimakhudza ubongo.

Pakati pa mliriwu, kunyong'onyeka kumalola ana ochulukirapo mwangozi kapena kapangidwe kake, kuti athe kukumana ndi zolaula zambiri. Pokhapokha mutadziphunzitsa nokha, kenako ana anu, za zomwe zingachitike, ndiye kuti pali zoopsa kuti mwana wanu azikhala ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi zolaula mtsogolo. Pepani kukhala olakwika, koma uku ndikuwunika zenizeni. Achinyamata ndi omwe ali pachiwopsezo chazovuta zakukula kwamatenda amisala komanso zosokoneza pakapita nthawi. Nazi zabwino kanema yaifupi ndi dokotala wamavuto okhumudwitsa akuyankhula zakuthana ndi mliriwu.

Chidule cha Kuopsa Kwa Zolaulas

Chizolowezi zolaula chimatha kuyambitsa zotsatirazi:

Kudzipatula pagulu; kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro; kutsutsa zakugonana kwa anthu ena; kuchita zinthu zowopsa komanso zowopsa; wokondedwa wapamtima wosasangalala; mavuto azakugonana; kudzida, kunyalanyaza mbali zofunika pamoyo; kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula, kuledzera.

Ubongo wa Achinyamata

zabwino, ubongo wachinyamata wapulasitiki

Achinyamata amayamba zaka zapakati pa 10-12 ndipo amatha mpaka zaka makumi awiri. Munthawi yovuta iyi yakukula kwaubongo, ana amakhala ndi nthawi yophunzira mwachangu. Chilichonse chomwe amaika chidwi chawo pazambiri chidzakhala njira zabwino pofika nthawi yakukula. Koma kuyambira kutha msinkhu kupita mtsogolo, ana amayamba kukhala ndi chidwi chokhudza kugonana ndipo amafuna kuphunzira zambiri za izi. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chinthu choyambirira m'chilengedwe ndi kubereka, kupititsa majini. Ndipo tidapangidwa kuti tizilingalira, okonzeka kapena ayi, ndipo ngakhale sitikufuna. Intaneti ndi malo oyamba omwe ana amayamba kufunafuna mayankho. Zomwe amapeza ndizosawerengeka zolaula.

Kufikira zolaula zaulere, kusanja, ndi zina mwazovuta zazikulu, zosaletseka zamagulu onse. Imawonjezera machitidwe atsopano pazikhalidwe zowopsa ku ubongo wofunafuna zoopsa. Onani vidiyo iyi yayifupi kuti mumve zambiri za ubongo wachinyamata ndi upangiri kwa makolo kuchokera kwa katswiri wodziwa za mitsempha.

Anyamata amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito malo olaula zolaula kuposa atsikana, ndipo atsikana amakonda malo ochezera ndipo amakonda kwambiri nkhani zolaula, monga 50 Shades of Grey. Izi ndi chiopsezo chosiyana ndi atsikana. Mwachitsanzo, tidamva za mtsikana wazaka 9 yemwe adatsitsa ndikuwerenga zolaula pa mtundu wake. Izi zinali choncho ngakhale amayi ake akukhazikitsa zoletsa komanso zowongolera pazinthu zina zonse zomwe amatha kugwiritsa ntchito, koma osati Fomu.

Achinyamata ambiri amati amalakalaka makolo awo atakhala okonzeka kukambirana nawo zolaula. Ngati sangakufunseni thandizo, apita kuti?

Webusayiti yayikulu komanso yotchuka kwambiri Pornhub imalimbikitsa makanema opanga nkhawa monga kugonana zachiwerewere, kusokonekera, kuzunza, kugwiririra ndi zigawenga. Chibwenzi ndi chimodzi mwazomwe zikukula mwachangu PornhubMalipoti ake omwe. Zambiri ndi zaulere komanso zosavuta kupeza. Pornhub amawona mliriwu ngati mwayi wabwino wogwiritsa anthu ambiri ndipo akupereka mwayi wopezeka kumasamba awo amalipira (omwe amalipira kwambiri) m'maiko onse.

Kafukufuku wochokera ku Britain Board of Film Classification

Malinga ndi izi kafukufuku kuyambira 2019, ana aang'ono ngati 7 ndi 8 akupunthwa ndikuwona zolaula zolaula. Panali makolo 2,344 ndi achinyamata omwe akuchita nawo kafukufukuyu.

  • Ambiri mwa achinyamata nthawi yoyamba kuwonera zolaula sizinali mwangozi, pomwe ana opitilira 60% a 11-13 omwe adawona zolaula akunena kuti kuwonera zolaula sikunali kwadala.
  • Ana adalongosola kuti amadzimva kuti ndi "onyada" komanso "osokonezeka", makamaka iwo omwe adawona zolaula ali ndi zaka zosakwana 10.  
  • Oposa theka (51%) azaka za 11 mpaka 13 adanenanso kuti adawonapo zolaula nthawi ina, ndikukwera mpaka 66% yazaka 14-15. 
  • 83% ya makolo adavomereza kuti zowonetsetsa zaka zakubadwa ziyenera kukhala m'malo mwa zolaula za pa intaneti 

Ripotilo lidawonetsanso kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro a makolo ndi zomwe ana amakumana nazo. Atatu mwa atatu (75%) a makolo adaganiza kuti mwana wawo sakanatha kuwona zolaula pa intaneti. Koma mwa ana awo, opitilira theka (53%) adati adaziwonadi. 

A David Austin, Chief Executive of the BBFC, adati: "Zithunzi zolaula pakadali pano ndi njira imodzi yolembera ana azaka zonse ku UK, ndipo kafukufukuyu akuthandiza umboni wochuluka womwe ukukhudza momwe achinyamata amamvera ubale wabwino, zogonana, chithunzi cha thupi ndi kuvomereza. Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsanso kuti ana aang'ono - nthawi zina azaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kapena zisanu ndi zitatu - awona zolaula pa intaneti, nthawi zambiri samakhala dala. ”

Ambiri mwa makolo ndi makolo omwe adafunsidwa amakhulupirira kuti kutsimikizira zaka kumalepheretsa ana kuti aziwona mwangozi zolaula ali aang'ono, ndipo zitha kuchedwetsa msinkhu womwe amaziwona.

83% ya makolo omwe adafunsidwa adavomereza kuti payenera kukhala zowongolera zaka zotsimikizira zolaula pa intaneti. Kafukufukuyu adawonetsanso kuti achinyamata akufuna kutsimikiziridwa zaka - 47% ya ana amamva kuti kutsimikizira zaka ndi lingaliro labwino, pomwe azaka 11-13 azaka zambiri amakonda kuposa achinyamata okalamba.

Mavidiyo othandizira kuteteza achinyamata

Kuthawa msampha wa zolaula

Miniti iyi ya 2, yowala makanema ojambula imapereka kuwunika mwachangu ndikuthandizira kufunikira kofulumira kukhazikitsa malamulo owunikira zaka kuti ateteze ana. Mutha kuwonetsa kwa ana anu popeza ilibe zolaula.

Mphindi iyi ya 5 kanema ndi buku kuchokera ku New Zealand. Mmenemo ma neurosurgeon amafotokozera momwe chizolowezi cha zolaula chikuwonekera mu ubongo ndikuwonetsa momwe amafanana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo a cocaine.

M'nkhaniyi ya TEDx "Kugonana, Zolaula ndi Umuna", Pulofesa Warren Binford, polankhula ngati mayi komanso mphunzitsi wokhudzidwa, amapereka chithunzi chabwino cha momwe zolaula zimakhudzira ana. Nkhani iyi ya TEDx ya Pulofesa Gail Dines "Kukula mchikhalidwe chowonera”(Mphindi 13) amafotokoza momveka bwino momwe makanema anyimbo, malo azolaula komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amasintha mchitidwe wogonana wa ana athu masiku ano.

Nayi nkhani yoseketsa ya TEDx (mphindi 16) yotchedwa "Momwe Zimayambira Zimakhudzira Kugonana”Ndi mayi waku America komanso wophunzitsa zogonana Cindy Pierce.  Wowongolera makolo ake akuti chifukwa chake kukambirana ndi ana anu zolaula ndizofunikira komanso zomwe zimawakopa. Onani pansipa kuti mudziwe zambiri zamomwe mungakambirane.

Ana a zaka zosakwana zisanu ndi chimodzi akutsata zithunzi zolaula. Ana ena amasangalatsidwa ndipo amafunafuna zambiri, ena amakhala osasangalala ndipo amakhala ndi zozizwitsa usiku. Zovala zolimba za akulu sizoyenera kwa ana amisinkhu iliyonse chifukwa cha gawo lawo la kukula kwaubongo. Nayi a lipoti kusinthidwa mu 2017 wotchedwa "… sindinadziwe kuti zinali zachilendo kuwonera…" kuwunika mozama komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe zimachitika pazakuwonera zolaula pa intaneti pazikhalidwe, malingaliro, zikhulupiriro ndi machitidwe a ana ndi achinyamata. " Idatumizidwa kuchokera ku Middlesex University ndi NSPCC ndi Children's Commissioner ku England ndi Wales.

Dziwani momwe kudziletsa kumakhala kovuta kwa achinyamata. Iyi ndi nkhani yabwino kwambiri ya TEDx wolemba zachuma waku America a Dan Ariely wotchedwa Kutentha Kwa Nthawi: Zotsatira Zogonana Pazisankho Zogonana.

Iyi ndi nkhani yabwino kwambiri yotchedwa "Achinyamata a Narcissistic Kugonana: Zolaula ndi Ubale Padziko Lapansi”Wolemba pulofesa wama psychology akufotokoza momwe achinyamata amaganizira zogonana komanso kugonana masiku ano. Ndikofunika kuwonera. Ndi canary m'migodi yamalasha.

Zolemba za Makolo a Makolo Zokhudza Momwe Zolaula Zimakhudzira Ana

Timalimbikitsa kanemayu. Mutha penyani kanema waulere pa Vimeo. Ndi zolembedwa ndi makolo, omwe amapezeka opanga mafilimu, kwa makolo. Ndiwowunikira bwino kwambiri pankhani yomwe tawona ndipo ili ndi zitsanzo zabwino za momwe mungakhalire ndi mauthenga okopa ndi ana anu.

Kuwonera kanemayo kumangotenga $ 4.99 yokha ndipo ndi ndalama zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito. (Sitimalandira ndalama pazovomerezekazi.) Akatswiri ambiri ndi zida zomwe timalangiza m'mabuku a makolo awa nawonso amapezeka zolemba. Rob ndi Zareen adayika ndalama zawo zonse ndi ukadaulo kuti apange izi ngati ntchito kwa makolo ena, kotero chonde mugule ngati mungathe. Zikomo. Ngati simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama, pali makanema ena abwino pansipa omwe amapezeka kwaulere.

Zolaula, zolusa komanso momwe mungasungire chitetezo

Thandizani ndi zokambirana zovuta

  1. Pulofesa wakale wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu, wolemba komanso mayi, Dr Gail Dines, ndiye woyambitsa wa Culture Reframed. Muwoneni iye TEDx akukamba "Kukula mchikhalidwe chowonera”(Mphindi 13). Iye ndi gulu lake apanga zida zaulere, zabwino kwambiri zomwe zingathandize makolo kulera ana olaula. Momwe mungayankhulirane: onani fayilo ya Chikhalidwe Chotsutsa Makolo Pulogalamu. 

2. Ili ndi buku latsopano lolembedwa ndi Colette Smart, mayi, mphunzitsi wakale komanso wama psychology lotchedwa "Adzakhala Ok“. Bukuli lili ndi zitsanzo za zokambirana zomwe mungakhale nazo ndi ana anu 15. Webusaitiyi ilinso ndi omwe amafunsidwa pa TV ndi wolemba nawo nawonso malingaliro ofunikira.

Malangizo apamwamba olankhula ndi ana

  1.  “Osadzudzula kapena kuchita manyazi” mwana woonera zolaula. Paliponse paliponse pa intaneti, pamacheza azama TV ndi makanema a nyimbo. Zimakhala zovuta kupewa. Ana ena amapitilira kuseka kapena kuonera, kapena mwana wanu angakhumudwe. Angakhale kuti akufunafunanso. Kungoletsa mwana wanu kuti azionera kumangoyambitsa chidwi, chifukwa monga momwe mawu akale amafotokozera, 'Chipatso choletsedwa chimakonda zokoma'.
  2. Sungani mizere ya Kulankhulana momasuka kotero kuti iwe ndiwe gombe lawo loyamba la kuyitana kukambirana za zolaula. Ana mwachibadwa amafunitsitsa kugonana kuyambira ali aang'ono. Zolaula pa Intaneti zikuwoneka ngati njira yozizira yophunzirira momwe mungakhalire wabwino pa kugonana. Khalani omasuka komanso oona mtima pankhani ya zolaula. Taganizirani kuyankhula za inu nokha pa zolaula ngati wachinyamata, ngakhale zitakhala zomasuka.
  3. Ana safuna nkhani yayikulu yokhudzana ndi kugonana, iwo akusowa zokambirana zambiri pakapita nthawi akamadutsa zaka zachinyamata. Aliyense ayenera kukhala wamkulu zaka, pemphani thandizo ngati mungafunike. Abambo ndi amayi onse akuyenera kutenga nawo gawo podziphunzitsa okha ndi ana awo zazokhudzana ndiukadaulo masiku ano.
  4. Kuchita ndi zionetsero: Poyamba ana amatha kuchita ziwonetsero, koma ana ambiri atiuza kuti akufuna kuti makolo awo awapatse nthawi yofikira panyumba ndikuwapatsa malire omveka bwino. Simukuchitira mwana wanu zabwino zilizonse powasiya 'zenizeni' m'manja mwawo.
  5. Osamadziona kuti ndinu wolakwa pochitapo kanthu molimba mtima ndi ana anu. Thanzi lawo ndi thanzi lawo zili m'manja mwanu. Dzilimbitseni ndi chidziwitso komanso mtima wofunitsitsa kuti muthandize mwana wanu kudutsa nthawi yovuta iyi yakukula. Apa pali zabwino malangizo Kuchokera kwa mwana wamawonekedwe a ana amalankhula makamaka za vuto lakudziimba mlandu.
  6. Recent kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti zosefera zokha siziteteza ana anu kuti asawonere zolaula pa intaneti. Upangiri wa makolo awa ukugogomezera kufunikira koti njira zolumikizirana zizikhala zofunikira kwambiri. Kupangitsa zolaula kukhala zovuta kupeza komabe nthawi zonse ndimayambira abwino makamaka ndi ana aang'ono. Ndikofunika kuyika Mafayilo pazida zonse za intaneti komanso kufufuza pa pafupipafupi kuti akugwira ntchito. Funsani kwa Childline kapena wogulitsa intaneti za upangiri waposachedwa pazosefera.

Malangizo apamwamba okhudza mafoni

  1. Kutaya nthawi yopatsa mwana wanu smartphone kapena piritsi kwa nthawi yayitali. Mafoni am'manja amatanthauza kuti mutha kulumikizana. Ngakhale zitha kuwoneka ngati mphotho yakugwira ntchito molimbika ku pulayimale kapena ku pulayimale kuti mupatse mwana wanu foni yam'manja polowa sekondale, onaninso zomwe zikuchita kuti akwaniritse maphunziro ake m'miyezi ikubwerayi. Kodi ana amafunikiradi kulowa pa intaneti maola 24 pa tsiku? Ngakhale ana atha kulandira homuweki yambiri yapaintaneti, kodi zosangalatsa zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito mphindi 60 patsiku, ngakhale ngati zoyeserera? Pali mapulogalamu ambiri kufufuza ntchito pa intaneti makamaka pa zosangalatsa. Ana a 2 zaka ndi pansi sayenera kugwiritsa ntchito zojambula konse.
  2. Chotsani intaneti usiku. Kapena, osachepera, chotsani mafoni onse, mapiritsi ndi zida zamasewera kuchokera kuchipinda cha mwana wanu. Kusagona kokwanira kumachulukitsa kupsinjika, kukhumudwa ndi nkhawa kwa ana ambiri masiku ano. Amafuna kugona tulo tokwanira, maola asanu ndi atatu osachepera, kuwathandiza kuti aphatikize kuphunzira kwa tsikulo, kuwathandiza kukula, kuzindikira momwe akumvera komanso kumva bwino.
  3. Aloleni ana anu adziwe zimenezo zolaula zimapangidwa ndi ndalama zambirimbiri makampani apamwamba kuti "hook" ogwiritsa popanda kuzindikira kwawo kuti apange zizolowezi zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti abwerere adzawonjezeranso zina. Zonse ndizosunga chidwi chawo. Makampani amagulitsa ndikugawana zambiri zakukhosi kwa wachitatu ndi otsatsa. Amapangidwa kuti akhale osokoneza bongo ngati masewera a pa intaneti, kutchova juga komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti owerenga azibwerera kuti adzawonjeze akangotopa kapena kuda nkhawa. Kodi mukufuna owongolera makanema olaula omwe amaphunzitsa ana anu zakugonana?

Kodi mapulogalamu angathandize bwanji?

  1. Pali mapulogalamu ambiri komanso njira zothandizira. Ikydz ndi pulogalamu yolola makolo kuwunika momwe ana awo amagwiritsira ntchito. Gallery Guardian imadziwitsa makolo pomwe chithunzi chokayikitsa chimawoneka pazida za mwana wawo. Amathana ndi zovuta zowopsa zolaula.
  2. mphindi ndi pulogalamu yaulere zomwe zimalola munthu kuwunika momwe amagwiritsira ntchito pa intaneti, kukhazikitsa malire ndikulandila zolandila akafika pamalire amenewo. Ogwiritsa ntchito ali ndi chizolowezi chonyalanyaza momwe amagwiritsidwira ntchito ndi malire ofunikira. Izi ndi zofanana koma osati zaulere. Zimathandiza anthu kuyambiranso ubongo wawo ndi thandizo panjira. Amatchedwa Ubongo wa Brainbuddy.
  3. Nawa mapulogalamu ena omwe angakhale othandiza: Maso a Pangano; Khungwa; Ndondomeko Mobicip; Qustodio Control makolo; WebWatcher; Choyamba cha Banja la Norton; OpenDNS Kunyumba kwa VIP; KoyeraSight Multi. Maonekedwe a mndandandawu satanthauza kuvomerezedwa ndi The Reward Foundation. Sitimalandila ndalama pazogulitsa mapulogalamuwa.
Ubongo Wanu pa Chikumbutso cha Porn
Ubongo Wanu pa Zithunzi

Buku labwino kwambiri pamsika ndi wolemba kafukufuku wathu waulemu Gary Wilson. Tikhoza kunena, koma zikuchitika kuti ndi zoona. Amatchedwa "Ubongo Wanu pa Zithunzi: Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti ndi Emerging Science of Addiction". Ndiwowongolera makolo kwambiri nawonso. Apatseni ana anu kuti awerenge popeza ili ndi nkhani mazana ambiri za achinyamata ena komanso zovuta zawo zolaula. Ambiri adayamba kuonera zolaula pa intaneti akadali achichepere nthawi zambiri adakumana nazo mwangozi.

Gary ndi mphunzitsi wabwino kwambiri wa sayansi yemwe amafotokozera zaubwino waubongo, kapena zomwe zimapangitsa, mu njira yopezeka kwambiri kwa omwe si asayansi. Bukuli ndikusintha pa mbiri yake TEDx kuyankhula kuchokera ku 2012.

Bukuli limapezeka papepala, pa Kindle kapena ngati audiobook. M'malo mwake mtundu wama audio umapezeka KWAULERE ku UK Pano, ndi anthu aku USA, Pano, malinga ndi zikhalidwe zina. Idasinthidwa mu Okutobala 2018 kuti ichitepo kanthu pozindikira bungwe la World Health Organisation la gulu latsopano la matenda a "Kusokonezeka Kwa Khalidwe logonana“. Kumasulira kulipo mu Chidatchi, Chirasha, Chiarabu, Chijapani ndi Chihungary pakadali pano, ndi ena omwe ali mu payipi. Mtundu waku Germany uyenera kutulutsidwa mu Meyi 2021.

Bwezerani-ana anu-ubongo
Bwezeretsani Ubongo wa Mwana Wanu

Buku la maganizo a ana a Dr. Victoria Dunckley "Bwezeretsani ubongo wa mwana wanu"Ndipo mfulu yake Blog fotokozerani zomwe zimachitika nthawi yayitali kwambiri muubongo wa mwana. Chofunika kwambiri chimakhazikitsa dongosolo lazomwe makolo angachite kuti athandize mwana wawo kuyambiranso.

Dr Dunckley samadzipatula pa zolaula koma amayang'ana kwambiri kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Akuti pafupifupi 80% ya ana omwe amawawona alibe matenda amisala omwe adapezeka ndi omwe awapatsa mankhwala, monga ADHD, matenda ochititsa munthu kusinthasintha zochitika, kukhumudwa, nkhawa ndi zina zambiri koma amakhala ndi zomwe amachitcha kuti 'electronic screen syndrome. ' Matendawa amatsanzira zizindikiro za zovuta zambiri zodziwika bwino zamaganizidwe amisala. Mavuto azaumoyo amatha kuchiritsidwa / kuchepetsedwa pochotsa zida zamagetsi kwakanthawi kozungulira masabata atatu nthawi zambiri, ana ena amafunikira nthawi yayitali asanayambiranso kugwiritsa ntchito koma pang'ono.

Buku lake limalongosolanso momwe makolo angachitire izi potsatira malangizo a makolo mogwirizana ndi sukulu ya ana kuti awonetsetse mgwirizano wabwino mbali ziwiri.

munthu-wasokonezedwa
Munthu, wasokonezedwa

Katswiri wodziwika bwino wama psychology Pulofesa Philip Zimbardo ndi Nikita Coulombe apanga buku labwino kwambiri lotchedwa Munthu anasokonezedwa za chifukwa chomwe anyamata akumenyera nkhondo lero ndi zomwe tingachite pothana nawo. Imakulitsa ndikusintha nkhani yotchuka ya Zimbardo ya TED "The Demise of Guys". Kutengera kafukufuku wamphamvu, limafotokoza chifukwa chake amuna akutentha maphunziro komanso akulephera kucheza ndi akazi.

Mabuku a Ana Aang'ono

"Bokosi la Pandora liri lotseguka. Tsopano ndikuchita chiyani? " Gail Poyner ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo ndipo amapereka nzeru zothandiza ubongo ndi zosavuta kuchita kuti athandize ana kuganiza mwa njira.

"Zithunzi Zabwino, Zithunzi Zoipa"Ndi Kristen Jensen ndi Gail Poyner. Komanso buku labwino likuganizira za ubongo wa mwana.

Osati kwa Ana. Kuteteza Ana. Liz Walker adalemba buku losavuta kwa ana aang'ono kwambiri omwe ali ndi zithunzi zokongola.

Chinsinsi cha Hamish ndi Chinsinsi. Ili ndi buku latsopano la Liz Walker la ana azaka za 8-12.

Mawebusayiti Othandiza

  1. Dziwani za umoyo, mwalamulo, maphunziro ndi ubwenzi zovuta zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Mphoto Yopindulitsa webusayiti pamodzi ndi malangizo pa kusiya.
  2. Onani momwe Chikhalidwe Chotsutsa Makolo Pulogalamu imathandiza makolo kuthana ndi kusintha kwa chikhalidwe ndi zomwe zimakhudza ana.
  3. Kumvetsetsa momwe zimakhalira zovuta kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kudzigwira. Kanema woseketsa wa psychologist wamkulu.
  4. Ogwiritsa ntchito ochepetsa kupewa kupewa kugonana Unakhazikitsidwa kuchokera ku Lucy Faithfull Foundation.
  5. Malangizo abwino kwaulere ochokera ku chithandizo choletsana ndi ana omwe amatsutsa ana. Makolo Athandizeni
  6. Limbani ndi Mankhwala Atsopano Momwe mungalankhulire ndi ana anu zolaula. 
  7. Nazi chofunika chatsopano lipoti kuchokera Nkhani za pa intaneti pa intaneti chitetezo ndi piracy ya digito ndi malangizo a momwe mungasungire mwana wanu otetezeka pamene akukwera ukonde.
  8. Malangizo ochokera kwa NSPCC yokhudza zolaula pa intaneti.
Masamba obwezeretsa kwa ogwiritsa ntchito achinyamata

Zambiri mwa maofesi akuluakulu ochotsera ufulu monga yamachikimachi.com; RebootNation.org; Foni ya M'manjaNoFap.com; Mzimba;  Pitani ku Ulemerero ndi Kuledzeretsa ku Internet Porn ndiwosakhulupirira koma ali ndi ogwiritsa ntchito achipembedzo. Zothandiza kwa makolo kuyang'ana kuti amvetsetse zomwe omwe akuchira adakumana nazo ndipo tsopano akupirira momwe akusinthira.

Zokhulupirira zozikidwa

Pali zipangizo zabwino zomwe zimapezekanso kumadera okhulupilira monga  Kukhulupirika Kumabwezeretsedwa kwa Akatolika, kwa Akhristu ambiri Chochitika Chowona Choona (UK) Mmene Zimakhalira Zolaula (US), ndipo MuslimMatters kwa iwo a chikhulupiriro cha Chisilamu. Chonde titumizireni ngati pali mapulogalamu ena azikhulupiriro omwe titha kusaina.

Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zolaula pafupipafupi ndi ana kumapangitsa ubongo wa mwanayo, template yawo yodzutsa zachiwerewere. Zimakhudza kwambiri kutumizirana mameseji ndi kutumizirana anzawo mauthenga pa intaneti. Kudera nkhawa makolo kuyenera kukhala vuto lalamulo la mwana wawo kukulitsa zovuta zolaula zomwe zitha kuchititsa kuti ena azichita zachiwerewere. Izi tsamba Kuchokera ku Gulu la Katswiri losankhidwa ndi Boma la Scottish kuti liziwononga pakati pa ana limapereka zitsanzo za machitidwe otere. Onaninso apa kuti mudziwe zambiri pazotumizirana zolaula, kubwezera zolaula ndi zina zomwe zikutsutsidwa kwambiri ndi Apolisi. Kutumiza zithunzi zolaula ku Scotland. Kutumiza zithunzi zolaula England, Wales ndi Northern Ireland.

Onani njira zopewera zachiwerewere zomwe Lucy Faithfull Foundation adachita Unakhazikitsidwa cholinga chake kwa makolo, osamalira, achibale komanso akatswiri. Reward Foundation yatchulidwa ngati gwero la chithandizo.

Ku UK, apolisi amafunsidwa ndi lamulo kuti azindikire zolaula zilizonse mu dongosolo la Police Criminal History. Ngati mwana wanu wagwidwa ndi zithunzi zosayenera ndipo wakhala akukakamiza kuti azipeza kapena kuzipereka kwa ena, atha kumulipira apolisi. Chifukwa chakuti apolisi amawaona kuti ndi milandu yayikulu kwambiri, mlanduwu wotumizirana mameseji, womwe umalembedwa mu mbiri yaupandu, umaperekedwa kwa omwe adzawalembetse ntchito akafuna cheke kuti agwire ntchito ndi anthu osatetezeka. Izi zimaphatikizapo ntchito yodzifunira.

Kutumizirana zolaula kumawoneka ngati mawonekedwe opanda vuto koma kukopana, koma ngati ndi yankhanza kapena yokakamiza ndipo ambiri atero, zotsatirazi zitha kukhala ndi tanthauzo lalitali kwakanthawi pantchito ya mwana wanu. Zithunzi zolaula zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse zomwe achinyamata amakhulupirira kuti ndizabwino kutengera.

Matenda a Autism Spectrum

Ngati muli ndi mwana yemwe amadziwika kuti ali pa autism spectrum, muyenera kudziwa kuti mwana wanu akhoza kukhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu chotengera zolaula kuposa ana amisala. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwana wanu atha kukhala pawonekedwe, ndibwino kukhala nawo ayesedwa ngati kungatheke. Amuna achichepere makamaka omwe ali ndi ASD kapena zosowa zapadera zophunzirira amayimilidwa moyerekeza mu ziwerengero zakugonana. Zimakhudza osachepera Anthu 1-2% mwa anthu ambiri, kuchuluka kwenikweni sikudziwika, komabe kuposa 30% ya olakwira ogonana ali pamasewu kapena ali ndi zovuta kuphunzira. Nayi fayilo ya pepala latsopano za chokumana nacho cha wachinyamata m'modzi. Tiuzeni kuti mupeze mapepala ngati mukufunikira.

Matenda a Autism ndimavuto amitsempha omwe amapezeka kuyambira pomwe adabadwa. Si matenda amisala. Ngakhale ndizofala kwambiri pakati pa amuna, 5: 1, akazi amathanso kukhala nayo. Kuti mumve zambiri werengani ma blogs awa zolaula ndi autism; nkhani ya amayi; ndi autism: weniweni kapena wabodza? kapena kuwona wathu woonetsa pa icho mu njira yathu ya YouTube.

Kusintha kwa Boma

Boma la UK laimitsa kaye (osachotsa) kudzipereka kwawo kuteteza ana pa intaneti. Ndiudindo wawo kuteteza omwe ali pachiwopsezo chazonse. Onani izi Kalata yochokera kwa nduna ya boma kwa Secretary of the Children's Charity 'Coalition on Internet Safety. Cholinga chalamulo lazotsimikizira zaka (Digital Economy Act, Gawo 3) linali kupanga makampani azamalonda zolaula kuti akhazikitse pulogalamu yotsimikizira zaka kuti aletse omwe ali ndi zaka zosakwana 18 kupita kumawebusayiti amalonda. Onani izi Blog za izo kuti mumve zambiri. Malamulo atsopanowa akufuna kuphatikiza masamba azama TV komanso masamba azithunzi zolaula pansi pa chatsopano Bill Wovulaza Paintaneti koma sizimayembekezeredwa kukhala zokonzekera mpaka 2023-24. Idzakhazikitsa udindo wosamalira. Pakadali pano, makolo ndi omwe akuwasamalira akuyenera kuchita zomwe angathe, mogwirizana ndi sukulu kuti zithandizire kuwongolera ana awo kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti.

Timafuna kuti ana akule ndikukhala ndiubwenzi wokondwa, wachikondi komanso wotetezeka. Penyani izi kanema wokongola, "chikondi ndi chiyani?" kutikumbutsa momwe zimawonekera pochita.

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