'Breath Play' aka Strangulation ikukwera mwachangu

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Zinali zodabwitsa kumva a Mtsikana wazaka 14 wazaka zakusukulu tidziwitseni kuti anali "mu kink". Tinali patsogolo pa achichepere ena 20 polankhula za zomwe zingakhale zowopsa pa zolaula pa intaneti. Izi zinali kale zaka zitatu zapitazo. 'Kupumira' kapena 'kusewera pamlengalenga' kumatha kupha. Makampani opanga zolaula komanso akatswiri ake adasinthanso kupha kosapha ngati "kusewera" kotero kumamveka kotetezeka komanso kosangalatsa. Si choncho. Apolisi atiuza kuti kunyentchera ndi amodzi mwamadera omwe akukula mwachangu kwambiri masiku ano. Onani pansipa za kafukufuku watsopano yemwe akuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa kuvulala komwe kungachitike ndi izi. Zikuwonekeratu kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikomwe kumathandizira kuti machitidwe azakugonana awonekere ngati abwinobwino.

Chimodzi mwa zokopa zake ndichikhulupiriro chakuti poletsa mayendedwe apandege, munthu atha kukhala wamkulu pakugonana. Malinga ndi a Kufufuza zolaula pa Sunday Times mu 2019 momwe zolaula pa intaneti zimasinthira malingaliro azakugonana, atsikana owirikiza kawiri kuposa anyamata ku Gen Z adavotera BDSM ndi kugonana kosagwirizana ndi zolaula zomwe amakonda.

Zachisoni, munthawi ngati Grace Millane, "Kusewera mpweya" kumatha kupita patali. Grace anali wobwerekera ku Britain ku New Zealand. Mnyamata yemwe adangokumana naye pa intaneti pomupha pomugwirira. Iye sali kutali ndi yekhayo. Ndiwo masewera olimbitsa thupi ozizira kwa achinyamata masiku ano.

Kafukufuku watsopano wokhudzana ndi kugonana

Munkhani yabwino kwambiri ya Louise Perry m'magazini ya Standpoint Magazine, timaphunzira za zatsopano kafukufuku Wolemba Dr Helen Bichard. Dr Bichard ndi dokotala ku North Wales Brain Injury Service. Amalankhula za "kuvulala kosiyanasiyana komwe kumachitika chifukwa chakukhala kosapha komwe kumatha kuphatikizira kumangidwa kwa mtima, stroko, kupita padera, kusadziletsa, vuto la kulankhula, khunyu, ziwalo, ndi mitundu ina ya kuvulala kwakanthawi kwaubongo." Dr Bichard akupitilizabe kunena kuti "kuvulala komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha kupyola osapha sikungawonekere ndi maso, kapena kumangowonekera patangopita maola kapena masiku kuchitikira izi, kutanthauza kuti sizowonekera kwenikweni kuposa kuvulala ngati mabala kapena kusweka mafupa, ndipo atha kufunsidwa apolisi akafufuza. ”

kupuma kosewerera kupuma
Zida zazikulu zomwe zili pachiwopsezo cha kupotokola (Bichard et al., 2020)

Amuna akhuthula akazi

Kukwapula kumachitika modabwitsa ndi amuna motsutsana ndi akazi. Ndiwofala kwambiri pamilandu yachiwawa m'banja. New Zealand idayambitsa mlandu wakupha anthu osagonana mu 2018. Kuyambira Januware mpaka Juni mu 2019 milandu yoposa 700 idanenedwa ku New Zealand, pafupifupi 4 patsiku.

Membala wa Harriet Harman pamodzi ndi aphungu ena akuyesera kuletsa chitetezo cha kupha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mu Bill House Abuse Bill. Brexit ndipo tsopano Covid-19 achedwetsa kupititsa kwa Bill kudzera mu Nyumba Yamalamulo. Ena akutcha chitetezo cha "50 Shades of Gray" kupha panthawi yogonana. Harmann wotchedwa kubwerera mu Epulo 2020 "kuti athetse kupanda chilungamo kumeneku" kwa chitetezo chamasewera achiwerewere chomwe chimatanthawuza kuti bambo yemwe amavomereza kuti adavulaza omwe amapha mkazi "samatha kupha".

Tiyenera kudziwa momwe chikhalidwe chingasokonezere mchitidwe wogonana, makamaka pakati pa achichepere, potengera nkhanza zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa omwe sagonana nawo mosaganizira zowopsa zomwe zingachitike. 

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